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Welcome to today's episode! In this video I talk about how a secure person handles an avoidant pulling away.

► Links and Resources:

Relational Needs & Standards Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHOxRnU4pEU&t=3s

The 3 Types of Avoidants (Why They Come Back) Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WViklne-zM8&t=961s

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► Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Overview

02:20 Typical Avoidant Dating Scenario

03:20 Why Avoidants Pull Away

08:00 Major Difference Between Secure & Avoidant Person

12:00 How a Secure Person Handles an Avoidant Pulling Away

20:30 Was It Your Fault?

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► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :)

► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.

I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.