Healthy // Toxic: Relationships with Narcissistic, Borderline, and other Personality Types

Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

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Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

True Crime Psychology and Personality

Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

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Produced by Ars Longa Media

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Produced by: Erin McCue

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

References: 

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Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

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Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

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Dr. Grande on YouTube

Produced by Ars Longa Media

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Produced by: Erin McCue

Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

References: 

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Kanazawa, S., & Still, M. C. (2018). Is there really a beauty premium or an ugliness penalty on earnings? Journal of Business and Psychology, 33(2), 249–262. https://doi-org.mylibrary.wilmu.edu/1...

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Produced by Ars Longa Media

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

Want more mental health content? Check out our other Podcasts:

Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

True Crime Psychology and Personality

Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

Links for Dr. Grande

Dr. Grande on YouTube

Produced by Ars Longa Media

Learn more at arslonga.media.

Produced by: Erin McCue

Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachments, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

References:

Azizli, N., Atkinson, B. E., Baughman, H. M., Chin, K., Vernon, P. A., Harris, E., & Veselka, L. (2016). Lies and crimes: Dark Triad, misconduct, and high-stakes deception. Personality and Individual Differences, 89, 34–39.

Jonason, P. K., Lyons, M., Baughman, H. M., & Vernon, P. A. (2014). What a tangled web we weave: The Dark Triad traits and deception. Personality and Individual Differences, 70, 117–119.

Dumas, T. M., Maxwell-Smith, M., Davis, J. P., & Giulietti, P. A. (2017). Lying or longing for likes? Narcissism, peer belonging, loneliness and normative versus deceptive like-seeking on Instagram in emerging adulthood. Computers in Human Behavior, 71, 1–10.

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Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

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Produced by Ars Longa Media

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

References:

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Gender Similarity in Interpersonal Attraction in a Simulated Online Dating Context. Psi Chi Journal of Psychological Research, 23(4), 320–329.

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Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

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Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

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Dr. Grande on YouTube

Produced by Ars Longa Media

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Produced by: Erin McCue

Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

Want more mental health content? Check out our other Podcasts:

Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

True Crime Psychology and Personality

Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

Links for Dr. Grande

Dr. Grande on YouTube

Produced by Ars Longa Media

Learn more at arslonga.media.

Produced by: Erin McCue

Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

Want more mental health content? Check out our other Podcasts:

Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

True Crime Psychology and Personality

Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

Links for Dr. Grande

Dr. Grande on YouTube

Produced by Ars Longa Media

Learn more at arslonga.media.

Produced by: Erin McCue

Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

References:

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Međedović, J. (2017). Aberrations in emotional processing of violence-dependent stimuli are the core features of sadism. Motivation and Emotion, 41(2), 273–283. https://doi-org.mylibrary.wilmu.edu/1...

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Pfattheicher, S., & Schindler, S. (2015). Understanding the dark side of costly punishment: The impact of individual differences in everyday sadism and existential threat. European Journal of Personality, 29(4), 498–505. https://doi-org.mylibrary.wilmu.edu/1...

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Healthy//Toxic

Healthy versus Toxic is a podcast where licensed mental health professionals explore what makes a relationship healthy or unhealthy. Our hosts aim to provide a scientifically informed perspective on what factors go into making healthy relationships, how to build secure attachment, and how to be a better parent, child, partner, or friend. 

References:

Boysen, G. A., Morton, J., & Nieves, T. (2018, November 29). Mental Illness as a Relationship Dealbreaker. Stigma and Health. Advance online publication.http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/sah0000157

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Mental Health // Demystified with Dr. Tracey Marks 

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Cluster B: A Look At Narcissism, Antisocial, Borderline, and Histrionic Disorders

Here, Now, Together with Rou Reynolds

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Produced by Ars Longa Media

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Executive Producer: Patrick C. Beeman, MD

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