With 1.6 Million followers, TikTok star Tefi Pessoa has built a community where she has become famous for her thoughtful and heartfelt advice on love, mental health, heartbreak and more. There's a reason she's been called the internet's BFF. Today she joins PRETTYSMART to delve deep into all things love, dating and heartbreak. She shares:

• Why men are who they are at 35.
• What she's learned from heartbreak.
• Why even after heartbreak love is still magical.
• How to not let heartbreak or bad relationships break your spirit.
• How she is able to never compromise who she is in relationships.
• Why it's helpful for her to enlist her tribe before she breaks it off with someone.
• What she finds she is really mourning when a relationship ends.
• Why some traits are not going to change in the person you're dating (and how to figure that out).
• When to listen if people tell you "you can do better".
• Navigating a breakup in the public eye.
• Why there's courage in normalcy.
• How men and women handle heartbreak differently.

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