Women entered the workforce. We got the degrees. We built careers. So why do so many of us still feel overwhelmed, exhausted, and like we're falling behind? In this episode of Question Everything, economist, professor, and author Corinne Low helps us unpack the hidden economics of modern womanhood, from invisible labor and unequal leisure time to the surprising role our relationships play in our ability to become who we want to be. Corinne and Danielle explore what "having it all" actually means, why choosing a partner may be one of the most important decisions we'll ever make, and whether women are still making trades inside a social contract we never agreed to. Because this conversation isn't really about chores, marriage, or even economics. It's about a bigger question: What does becoming look like for us—and what are we willing to trade to get there? In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why women still perform trillions of dollars of unpaid labor every year
• What 400 extra hours a year could mean for our careers, health, creativity, and happiness
• Why equality at work didn't automatically create equality at home
• The hidden reason so many ambitious women feel perpetually exhausted
• Why Corinne says choosing a partner is one of the most important economic decisions we'll ever make
• The surprising quality that's sexier than "sexy" in a long-term relationship
• How invisible labor affects ambition, career growth, and self-worth
• Why resentment often starts with time, not money
• The trap many couples fall into when one person's goals take priority over the other's
• Corinne's argument that a happy marriage requires both people to be self-actualized
• Why "having it all" may be the wrong question entirely
• The tradeoffs every woman is making (whether she realizes it or not)
• How modern relationships can either accelerate or limit who we're becoming
• A question Danielle couldn't stop thinking about: What would you do with ten extra weeks of your life every year?

Make sure to pick up a copy of Corinne’s book Having It All, here.

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What if the version of success you’ve been chasing was inherited, not consciously chosen? In this episode, Brooke Taylor, former Google Marketing Lead turned career coach and author argues that many ambitious women are unknowingly suffering from what she calls “the success wound”: the belief that our worth has to be earned through achievement. From elite schools to prestigious careers, we’re taught to chase accomplishment as the path to freedom. But what happens when you finally get there… and still feel empty? Brooke opens up about how her own success nearly destroyed her career at Google and shattered her sense of self. She also details why achievement can become a coping mechanism, how comparison quietly shapes our identities, and why so many outwardly successful women are falling apart behind the scenes. Brooke shares:

• Why high achievers often feel empty after “making it”
• The hidden psychological cost of tying self-worth to achievement
• Why success can quietly become a coping mechanism
• The breaking point that led Brooke to leave Google and completely reevaluate her life
• What Healing the Success Wound reveals about burnout, ambition, and identity
• The difference between healthy ambition and trauma-driven hustle
• The five types of unfulfilled achievers: Grinder, Pleaser, Hider, Seeker & Work Hard Play Hard
• Why outward success doesn’t guarantee inner fulfillment
• The surprising reason high-achieving women experience more anxiety and burnout
• How perfectionism keeps women stuck playing small
• Why curiosity (not confidence) may be the real key to healing
• Why learning to make decisions with only 51% certainty can transform your confidence and self-worth
• The dangerous lie behind “I’ll relax once I get through this season”
• How to stop using productivity to prove your worth
• Practical ways to rebuild self-worth without losing your ambition

Follow Brooke on Instagram @brookevtaylor

Be sure to check out Brooke’s book Healing the Success Wound here

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What if you did everything right… and still weren't seen? NBC News anchor and author Morgan Radford is the kind of person who makes you rethink in real time. From being rejected by every local news station she applied to becoming one of NBC's most trusted correspondents and anchors, Morgan shares the truth behind her success and the moments that almost broke her. Inspired by her debut novel Now Then, this episode centers on the question passed down through generations of women in her family: "Where can we go to be whole?” In this episode, Morgan shares:

• The rejection letters she saved + the unpaid 2AM CNN internship that changed everything

• Why success doesn't protect you from feeling unseen

• The workplace moment she realized she could have a job, but not a career

• What it costs to be "the only one in the room"

• The love story that came back 12 years later + the pregnancy test she took that same night

• Why motherhood made her see the world "in Technicolor"

• The emotional inheritance passed down through the women in her family

• What writing Now Then forced her to confront about identity and vulnerability

• Her take on "fake news" and why journalism is at a breaking point

• The line that stopped Danielle in her tracks: "Dreams aren't something you have. Dreams are something you build."

Grab a copy of Morgan’s debut novel Now Then here

Follow Morgan on Instagram @morgankradford

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Movement can change more than your body, sometimes it changes the entire direction of your life. In this episode of Question Everything, Robin Arzón, Vice President of Fitness Programming at Peloton, bestselling author, ultramarathon runner, entrepreneur, and host of the podcast Project Swagger, opens up about leaving behind a successful career in corporate law to build a life centered around movement, reinvention, discipline, and purpose. Robin shares her philosophies on burnout, ambition, motherhood, mental toughness, GLP-1 culture, and learning to live in the uncomfortable space between who you are today… and who you’re becoming next. In this episode, Robin shares:

• How she went from corporate lawyer to one of the most recognizable faces in fitness at Peloton
• Why women “should” themselves into burnout
• The mindset shift that helped her reinvent her life
• Her philosophy on discipline, motivation, and mental toughness
• The productivity habits she uses to protect her energy and time
• Her honest thoughts on GLP-1 medications and modern body image culture
• Why motherhood made her more ambitious
• The self-talk techniques that helped build her confidence
• What endurance training taught her about resilience and mental toughness
• Why your feelings “aren’t always telling you the truth”
• Why she intentionally schedules “boredom” into her week
• The question that helps her overcome imposter syndrome
• How to create a life that feels expansive instead of performative
• The wellness trends she thinks are actually worth the hype

Make sure to follow Robin on Instagram here and listen to her weekly podcast, Project Swagger.

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On October 7, 2023, Rachel Goldberg-Polin's son Hersh was taken from the Nova Music Festival into Gaza. For 330 days, she and her husband John fought to bring him home; meeting with world leaders, speaking at the UN, and wearing a piece of tape on their chests with the changing number of days he'd been held captive. Hersh was murdered in captivity on day 330.

In this raw and unforgettable conversation, Rachel sits down with Danielle to talk about her new book When We See You Again (NYT bestseller). She opens up about the reality of living inside grief, the pressure society places on people to “heal,” why she rejects toxic positivity, the philosophy of “tragic optimism” that now guides her life, and why she refuses to let her humanity break.In this episode, she shares: 

• The final two texts Hersh sent his parents and what they meant
• Why Rachel calls herself "disordered" 
• The story behind the tape that millions of people around the world started wearing
• "Toxic positivity" vs. "tragic optimism" — and the Viktor Frankl quote that Hersh lived by
• How Rachel held space for the suffering of mothers in Gaza while her own son was held there
• The one question she still can’t answer: “How are you?”
• Why Rachel says motherhood changed “the DNA” of who she is in the world
• The Jewish mystical idea that reframes why we're here at all
• What it means to mother a child who is no longer in this world
• Why Rachel says “hope is mandatory” even after unimaginable loss
• "Every soul comes to this world to do one act of kindness." The teaching that helps Rachel make sense of Hersh's life and her own

Grab a copy of Rachel’s NYT bestselling book When We See You Again here

Follow Rachel + her family on Instagram here

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What if the way you get dressed every day is shaping more than your appearance? In this episode of Question Everything, Danielle speaks with celebrity stylist Erin Walsh, known for shaping the iconic looks of Anne Hathaway, to explore the deeper psychology of style, identity, and intentional living. From styling Selena Gomez, Sarah Jessica Parker and more, to her full-circle connection to The Devil Wears Prada and her new book The Art of Intention, Erin reveals why getting dressed is more than fashion. It's a daily practice of self-definition. If you’ve ever wondered how to become the person you’re meant to be, this conversation reframes transformation as something you choose—one decision at a time. In this episode you’ll also learn:

• Erin’s full-circle journey: from working at Vogue to becoming a The Devil Wears Prada fan, to styling Anne Hathaway on the The Devil Wears Prada 2 press tour
• What Erin has learned about fashion and pop culture from styling celebrities like Selena Gomez, Kerry Washington, and Sarah Jessica Parker
• The rise of “method dressing” and storytelling through red carpet fashion
• Why Erin believes “what should I wear?” is the wrong question, and what to ask instead
• The concept of intentional dressing and how it impacts confidence, identity, and performance
• The biggest lesson Erin learned from working at Vogue
• How to use fashion as a form of self-therapy and emotional regulation
• The “3-word method” to define how you want to feel each day
• Why most people disconnect from their personal style, and how to rebuild that connection
• The difference between dressing for the event vs. dressing for yourself
• Why criticism (and even harsh feedback) can be a creative advantage
• How small daily choices compound into major life direction shifts
• The role of intention in manifestation, success, and personal growth
• How many times a year you should be cleaning out your closet
• Why your closet might be holding you back, and how to turn it into a “portal of possibility”
• A new definition of transformation: becoming the you you were meant to be

Make sure to check out Erin’s book The Art of Intentional Dressing here

Follow Erin’s journey on Instagram

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What if uncertainty wasn’t something to dread, but something we’re meant to live inside? In this episode, Danielle sits down with Paralympian Amy Purdy, whose life changed overnight at age 19 after losing both of her legs to bacterial meningitis. What followed wasn’t just a story of resilience, it was a complete redefinition of identity, possibility, and what it means to move forward. Amy went on to become a three-time Paralympic medalist, a finalist on Dancing with the Stars, and the author of Bounce Forward. But more than what she’s accomplished, this conversation focuses on how she navigates uncertainty, reinvention, and the moments that don’t make sense while you’re living them. In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The wild story of Madonna discovering Amy Purdy in a casting call
• Amy’s story of losing both legs to bacterial meningitis at 19
• How Amy became a Paralympic medalist after losing both her legs
• The premonition-like encounter Amy had weeks before she nearly died
• What facing death actually feels like (and why it wasn’t fear)
• How to redefine purpose after losing everything familiar
• Ideas for staying grounded when life feels uncertain and out of control
• The difference between “bouncing back” vs. bouncing forward
• What it’s like learning to snowboard again on prosthetic legs
• The mental tools Amy uses to navigate fear, anxiety, and uncertainty
• How Amy manifested working with Oprah Winfrey, Deepak Chopra, and Liz Gilbert
• The role of presence and mindfulness during life’s hardest moments
• Amy’s devastating second injury, and the moment she realized she “might never walk again”
• The power of choosing challenges and reframing our reality 

Make sure to check out Amy on Instagram, and read her new book Bounce Forward 

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We’re all bombarded with a lot of career advice these days. And while some of it sounds good in theory, most of it doesn’t actually work in real life. In this episode, Danielle speaks with leadership coach Ginny Clarke, who brings 35+ years of experience across executive recruiting, talent management and leadership, including time as a Director of Executive Recruiting at Google. Ginny’s advice is simple: work is a game. To win, you have to learn to play. From what recruiters are really looking for, to why “main character energy” can quietly sabotage your career, to uncomfortable truths about titles, leadership, and workplace culture. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure how to navigate work without losing yourself in the process, this conversation will reframe how you think about all of it. You’ll learn: 

• Career advice that actually works (and what’s quietly outdated)
• Job interview tips that go beyond rehearsed answers
• The most common interview mistakes, and how to avoid them
• How to answer “tell me about yourself” without sounding scripted
• What recruiters are really looking for (beyond your resume)
• Interview tips for introverts who don’t want to “perform”
• Career growth strategies that don’t rely on a linear path
• Workplace advice for navigating office dynamics and expectations
• How to succeed at work without burning out or losing yourself
• The truth about “main character energy” at work
• Leadership advice you can apply at any level, not just management
• How to deal with a bad boss (without hurting your own career)
• What company culture really is, and how to spot red flags fast
• Why your job title matters less than you think
• The mindset shift that unlocks real career success

Follow Ginny on Instagram and TikTok.

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Men are more lonely, more disconnected, and more unsure of who they’re supposed to be than we’ve seen in generations. And while the data is alarming, what often gets lost is how this is actually showing up in real life: on dates, in relationships, and in the expectations men and women are navigating every day. In this episode, Danielle speaks with Dr. Gary Barker, a leading global researcher on men and masculinity, to unpack what’s actually going on. From the cultural forces shaping modern manhood, to how it’s showing up in dating and relationships. Plus, the surprising TV show Gary points to as a model of healthy masculinity. Gary also unpacks:

• Why modern masculinity feels more confusing than ever
• The loneliness epidemic among men, and why it’s getting worse
• Why so many men feel blamed for systems like patriarchy and the Me Too movement
• The difference between calling men out vs calling men in (and why it matters)
• Why accountability alone isn’t working, and what’s missing
• How men actually benefit from gender equality and a safer world for women
• What role women play in reshaping masculinity, and where the line is
• The emotional labor gap in relationships, and why women tend to carry more
• The growing disconnect in modern dating, and why many women feel misaligned
• How dating apps and comparison culture are changing expectations for men
• The biological conversation we avoid: testosterone, male sexuality, and agency
• Why men are also wired for care, connection, and emotional bonding (not just aggression)
• The sources from which boys learn masculinity: mainly media, culture, peers, and family
• Why pop culture (like The Pitt) is starting to show healthier versions of masculinity
• Why no country, not even Scandinavian countries with progressive policies, has fully figured this out
• What it actually looks like to raise boys differently in today’s world

• The link between masculinity, violence, and school shootings in the U.S.

Follow Dr. Gary Barker’s organization Equimondo on Instagram

Book recommendation: Father Time by Sarah Hrdy

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We all move through the same world, but we don’t all notice the same things. In this episode, Danielle speaks with visual artist Daniel Arsham about what it actually means to pay attention, and how refining that skill can shape not just your worldview, but your creativity and success. From choosing to live inside a 90-square-foot space in his own studio to building a global career spanning art, fashion, and design, Arsham’s life is a case study in the art of perception. Today, his work sits at the intersection of culture and luxury, collaborating with brands like Dior, Porsche, Tiffany & Co., and Pokémon, with sculptures that sell for millions and exhibitions that draw thousands across multiple continents. This conversation goes beyond aesthetics and into something deeper: how we train ourselves to notice, what we filter out, and how those choices quietly shape what we create, a philosophy he explores further in his new memoir, Future Relic. In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Daniel’s take on the art of noticing, and how photography first taught him that a camera is not just for documenting the world, but for framing a personal way of seeing it.
• The idea behind failure as a creative necessity.
• Why Daniel says success often comes down to being willing to fail longer than most people are comfortable with.
• How his humble beginnings at his Greenpoint studio became a key lesson in his career.
• Why Daniel wanted his memoir Future Relic to focus so heavily on process, detours, and setbacks 
• What Daniel considers his clearest public failure, and why most creative disappointments matter far less than they feel like they do in the moment.
• The story of Daniel building a full-scale cardboard replica of Emmanuel Perrotin’s gallery inside his studio as a way of pitching himself. 
• The changing value of handmade work in an increasingly digital and AI-driven world
• Daniel’s take on taste, which he says is developed through exposure, travel, and experience, not something you are simply born with.

Follow Daniel on Instagram and make sure to check out his book Future Relic 

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