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Hope After Betrayal: Rebuilding When Everything You Believed In Falls Apart


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Hope After Betrayal: Rebuilding When Everything You Believed In Falls Apart

“We don’t always realize it, but one of the hardest parts of betrayal isn’t the lies or even the loss of love—it’s the shattering of hope.” — Lora Cheadle

In this intimate episode, Lora reframes hope as the bridge between devastation and a life rebuilt—not toxic positivity or waiting for someone else to change, but grounded, embodied hope rooted in your choices, compassion, meaning, and connection. You’ll hear the four stages of hope after betrayal (from false hope to grounded hope), how to spot the difference between wishful thinking and true hope, and five practical ways to bring hope back online in your body and your life—no matter which path your relationship takes.

Top 3 Takeaways

  1. Name the real injury: The deepest wound of betrayal isn’t just the loss of trust—it’s the death of hope. Feeling hopeless is a nervous-system protection, not a personal failure.
  2. True hope vs. toxic hope: Toxic hope waits for someone else to change; true hope trusts you to create peace, safety, and joy again—regardless of the outcome.
  3. From flicker to foundation: Rebuild hope through Connection, Choice, Compassion, Meaning/Faith, and Embodiment—small, consistent actions that restore agency and let your body feel hopeful again.
  4. Favorite Quote

    “The deepest wound of betrayal isn’t just the loss of trust—it’s the death of hope.”

     

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      📚 Books By Lora 📚

       

      • International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
      • • Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019

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        It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike.

         

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        Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com

         

         

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