DB breaks down how to talk to your partner about bringing sex toys into the bedroom to get more pleasure. She shares stats on who’s using sex toys, why queer couples are ahead of the game, and easy ways to start the convo with your partner. Plus: top sex toy recs and a playful challenge to try at home.

Studies mentioned in this episode:

• Do Sex Toys Make Me Satisfied? The Use of Sex Toys in Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Finland, France, and the UK

• The Results of the Magic Wand Wellness Study Are In!

Toys for couples mentioned in this episode:

• Magic Wand Rechargeable: Great for external stimulation during all kinds of play. Works well in both solo and partner contexts. And, yes, our study backs up its pleasure-boosting stats!
• We-Vibe Chorus: A wearable toy designed for couples to use during penetrative sex. Remote-controlled, adjustable, and great for mutual stimulation.
• Strap-ons and Harnesses: Incredible for exploring power dynamics, switching roles, and opening up new kinds of connection—great for queer couples and for straight folks who want to learn from queer innovation.

ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We’re here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.

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