🎧 Listen to this episode if…

• You feel overwhelmed and don't know what the steps of the divorce process are

• You're separated (or thinking about separating) and want clarity on what happens next

• You're stuck in negotiations or dealing with a stonewalling, avoidant or controlling ex

• You want to understand mediation, arbitration, court filings, interim hearings and trials

• You're self-represented and need a clear, realistic roadmap of the family law process

• You want to feel calmer, in control, and informed about the journey ahead

• You're already in the court system and want to know what the upcoming stages really mean

• You want to avoid panic, surprises and fear of the unknown

If you're going through separation, divorce or a parenting/property dispute in Australia, this episode will walk you through every major step in the family law process from the moment of separation all the way to a final hearing.

No jargon. No fear. No overwhelm. Just a clear explanation of what you may face and how long things typically take.

We break down how to negotiate, when mediation works (and why it fails), what arbitration actually is, how to use deadlines and case law to manage a difficult ex, when court becomes necessary, what happens at each court stage, and how to avoid getting stuck for months or years.

Whether you're at the very beginning or already halfway through, this roadmap will help you feel grounded and prepared.

📌 LEGAL DISCLAIMER: This episode is general education only — not legal advice. Always seek independent legal advice for your specific situation.

⏱️ Episode Timeline

00:00 – Divorce Roadmap Overview: What to Expect From Separation to Trial A complete explanation of the stages ahead and why understanding the process matters.

00:38 – Meet the Hosts + Education-Only Disclaimer Why we give information, not advice — and how to use the episode wisely.

01:59 – Why Your Separation Date Matters (Especially Under One Roof) How timelines, contributions, and financial outcomes are affected.

03:45 – DIY Negotiations: Why a 'Signed Paper' Isn't Enough The trap so many people fall into — and how it can cost you later.

05:28 – Consent Orders & Financial Agreements Explained What makes an agreement legally binding and what the court checks for.

06:59 – Parenting vs Property Mediation: How They Work & How to Prepare Why combining both in one day often backfires.

10:55 – After Mediation Fails: Arbitration, Offers & Partial Agreements How to keep momentum instead of getting stuck.

13:28 – Stonewalling & Delay Tactics: Deadlines, Notice to File & Case Law Strategies to shift an avoidant or controlling ex.

19:03 – Filing in Court: What Documents You Need & What They Mean Affidavits, financial statements, notices of risk and more.

20:47 – Should You File Parenting & Property Together? The advantages and pitfalls.

22:03 – Using Court Filings as Negotiation Leverage Why an initiating application often triggers settlement.

23:11 – First Court Event Explained (It's Not a Trial!) What registrars do, what decisions they can make, and what they can't.

23:43 – PPP500 & Evatt List: What These Court Pathways Mean for You Faster lists for smaller pools and family violence matters.

25:52 – Interim Hearings: Urgent Parenting & Property Issues When the court steps in early.

28:02 – Court-Ordered Mediation: Reality Checks & Settlement Pressure The moment many cases resolve.

31:35 – Readiness Hearing: Preparing for Trial Final directions, valuations, and evidence.

33:11 – Final Trial: What Actually Happens in the Courtroom Cross-examination, timelines, outcomes and appeals.

36:37 – Big Picture Strategy: Stay Focused on Your Stage Why thinking too far ahead causes overwhelm.

40:09 – Costs Orders & Legal Abuse The consequences for bad behaviour in litigation.

41:58 – Wrap-Up: Tell It to the Judge + Course Info & Outro

🔗 Links & Resources

✨The Course: https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol ✨ Courses & Free Support Resources: www.thedivorcecourse.com.au

💛 Support Services 1800 RESPECT – 1800 737 732 Lifeline – 13 11 14