Been There Got Out Podcast

How the Alaskan Wilderness Honed an Expert's Negotiation Skills


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Join us for an intriguing discussion with Doug Fifer, a former Alaskan police officer and expert negotiator, as we explore the complexities of Alaska's unique environment and its impact on crime. With breathtaking landscapes that mask a darker reality, Doug shares his insights into the high rates of domestic violence and serial killings that plague the state. Discover how isolation, harsh weather, and substance abuse contribute to these issues and learn about the peculiar gender ratio in Alaska and its implications for relationships. Doug also recounts his journey from growing up in the small town of Homer to a 25-year career with the Anchorage Police Department.

Listen in as Doug, a seasoned law enforcement officer, shares his invaluable experience in negotiating with difficult individuals. Negotiation skills, Doug explains, are essential not only in law enforcement but also in everyday life, such as mediating custody battles. He reveals key strategies like building rapport and identifying common interests, while emphasizing the importance of honesty to maintain trust and safety in high-stakes scenarios. This conversation sheds light on the mental and physical demands of hostage negotiations, highlighting techniques that can be universally applied to daily interactions.

Our conversation takes a closer look at managing emotions during domestic violence cases, particularly in Alaska, where such incidents are prevalent. Doug discusses the challenges officers face and strategies for victims to protect themselves, including the potential role of AI in verifying evidence. He emphasizes the importance of de-escalating situations to prevent further violence and shares a humorous story from his time as a hostage negotiator. As we wrap up, Doug talks about the significance of trusting your instincts for personal safety, particularly in dangerous situations, and introduces his book "Fifty Shades of True Crime," which offers an engaging look into criminal cases from his perspective as a law enforcement officer.

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