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In today’s episode, we cover high value behaviors with AJ and Johnny. 

Being a high value person opens doors to opportunities you never thought possible, so what does it mean to be high value, what high value behaviors should you look for in yourself and others, and what simple steps can you take to filter high value people into your life?

What to Listen For

  • Introduction – 0:00
  • Why are high value behaviors important if you want to have a healthy social circle and fulfilling life?
  • What does it mean to be high value – 16:10 
  • What is the difference between high and low value behaviors and why should you avoid low value behaviors if you don’t want to be miserable?
  • How do you deal with friends who want to hold you back when you’re trying to grow and be a better person?
  • How to Build a High Value Social Circle – 28:00
  • What steps can you take to build and maintain a social circle of high value individuals who will support you and be there for you when you need them?
  • Examples of High Value Behavior – 37:50
  • How can you identify high value behavior in the people around you so you know who to connect with and who to avoid?
  • So, what are high value behaviors? They’re the things that help us grow and become better people. They make our lives more fulfilling and meaningful. And they attract other high value individuals into our social circles. We all want to be happy and have a good life, but too often we get stuck around low value behavior that keeps us from reaching our goals. If you want to break out of this cycle and build a better life for yourself, start by making some changes in the way you interact with the people around you. Replace low value behaviors with high value ones, and surround yourself with positive people who will support your growth. It won’t be easy, but it’s worth it. 

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    Resources from this Episode

    • Avoid These 3 Low Value Behaviors (Toolbox)

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