Do you feel like you're dating the same person over and over again? You try to vet potential dates as best you can but somehow you always end up attracting the fixer-upper, the narcissist, the emotionally unavailable... and you're over it!  In the end, you realize that your “picker” might be off. This week, listen in as Kimmy live coaches Ashley, who found Kimmy through her free Facebook group, The Love Makeover Insiders. Ashley is ready to meet someone great after finding herself and defining the kind of person she really wants, but dating has been challenging. She's not meeting the kind of guys she's looking for and she's starting to wonder if her picker is off. 

  EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker:  Coaching With Kimmy   Kimmy begins the episode by decoding and dissecting what has been challenging for Ashley.  Ashley discloses that she had a concussion a while back which definitely affected her confidence and feeling overly sensitive on dates.  You’ll hear how Kimmy uncovers some unexpected and surprising revelations of what the real reasons her picker is off and why dating has been hard beyond the concussion.  Kimmy then helps Ashley reveal connections about how her upbringing and experiences with boys in her younger years are related to what has been holding her back now. Ashley begins by talking about her perception of flirting and why being playful and light on dates never was easy for her.  Kimmy gives tangible flirting tips to get you out of your head and into your body. Kimmy talks about how being present and positive can allow you to share more of yourself and have authentic, interesting conversations. When you release the pressure of getting in a relationship or everything on your list -- you can relax, become more present, and have fun on your terms.    If you're tired of bad dates and feel your picker might be off, reach out to Kimmy and set up a FREE coaching call: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough Kimmy will help you map out a strategy to help you like she did with Ashley.   EPISODE 224 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Be A Better Picker:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups