The Liz Moody Podcast

How to Be More Attractive, Win At Apps, Flirt Better, And More: Relationship Scientist Logan Ury Answers YOUR Qs


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My guest today is the amazing Logan Ury. Logan is a Harvard-educated behavioral scientist turned dating coach, and the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge, where she leads a research team dedicated to helping people find love. Her work has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, GQ, Glamour, and on HBO and the BBC. She was a featured speaker at SXSW 2021, and her book, How Not To Die Alone, is absolutely phenomenal, a really science-backed, totally unique approach to dating, and is available wherever books are sold. 

  • science-backed tips for being attractive and desirable on a date
  • how to be a great conversationalist (including the exact questions to ask)
  • how to let go of expectations for the first date and enjoy yourself
  • the one HUGE thing everyone does wrong on dates
  • how to feel super confident (and not self-conscious) on dates
  • how to design a perfect first date, according to behavioral science (including how long it should be, who should initiate, what you should do, and more)
  • if playing games works, according to science (the answer will surprise you!)
  • 3 tips for creating a perfect dating app profile
  • what to do if you’re swiping and swiping and not finding anyone you like
  • exactly what to do if you never feel a spark or connection on dates
  • how to flirt better
  • how to get over exhaustion and dating despair
  • the one thing that sets successful daters apart from unsuccessful daters
  • green flags and red flags to look for on early dates
  • exactly how long to chat on app before meeting in person, according to research
  • why she tells people to have a 2 date minimum
  • how to increase your efficiency on apps so you can spend less time on them
  • how to meet people in real life, if you don’t want to do apps
  • We would LOVE to hear from you any thoughts, reactions, or takeaways you have as you’re listening, so definitely screenshot and tag me @lizmoody and Logan (@loganury)! We’re also doing a huge giveaway on Instagram, including a private coaching session with Logan, so definitely head over so you don’t miss that!

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