In this inspirational coaching episode, Marni speaks with Tarah. Tarah was part of the 5-Keys to Becoming Irresistible program in May of 2020. She is a 38-year-old, single, Professional Marketing and PR Communications expert. Tarah describes how she created the life she wanted by using the foundational principles of the program.  

 

Key takeaways from this episode: 

• Setting boundaries
• Keeping your word to yourself
• Knowing when to bow out of a relationship
• Putting yourself out there

 

Finding the Key to What Was Missing [2:25]

Tarah was put into a position of leadership within the craft brewing community of Charleston, SC. She moved from NYC after providing financial and human resource services to a fast-paced company. She had traveled, changed jobs, and cities but still didn’t have a partner.

When Tarah thought about it she realized she didn’t know how to date. She knew she needed help because what worked for her in the past didn't really work for her. She was aware enough to know that there must be a better way. So, she reached out to Marni and the team then joined the 5-Keys to Becoming Irresistible program in May of 2020.  

Previous to joining the program, Tarah had spent years in therapy, studied her attachment style, read books, and had even tried to travel it out but none of these things empowered her to get the life she wanted. One of her biggest takeaways from the 5-Keys program was to create, communicate, and implement boundaries. 

 

Transform Your Dating Life [10:32]

Many people believe they are stuck in their attachment style and patterns. But it is possible to rewire our brains to overcome, shift, and shed existing patterns. Tarah describes how she shifted her attachment style. 

She says it will always be work. She has to constantly remind herself that she put her boundaries in place for a reason.  She knows if she breaks her promise to herself she will go back into the behavior that doesn't allow her to get her needs met. 

Tarah started a new relationship using what she learned from the program and while it didn't work out with the guy, it did get her closer to where she wants to be. She says she wanted to believe that love conquers all but it just isn't realistic. People need to have some values in alignment but they have to be bigger than the areas of contention. 

 

Whether it is an App or a Pub, You Have to Put Yourself Out There [28:18]

Tarah says she put out to the universe that she wants to meet someone organically. A couple of days later she went to a pub for a late lunch. A guy sat down beside her and they have been together for two months. She knows she wants a partner she can do things with but she doesn't have to have a ring on her finger. It's more important, for her, to have shared values with someone.

 

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