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the happiness trap 💭— in this podcast, i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me break free from the constant chase for success and finally understand what real fulfillment feels like. after hitting 100,000 subscribers in 2022 and still feeling empty, i realized i had fallen into the arrival fallacy — the belief that happiness exists in the next achievement. this episode is all about resetting your relationship with success, detoxing from quick dopamine highs, and building daily habits that support long-term peace. from reframing your goals to practicing resilience, gratitude, and guided journaling, this is your reminder that happiness isn’t a destination — it’s a daily choice. let’s reconnect with the present, redefine what it means to feel “enough,” and build a life rooted in meaning, not milestones. ✨
♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:
00:00 Introduction: The Illusion of Happiness
02:05 Chapter 1: Happiness Myths That Are Keeping You Stuck
09:15 Chapter 2: Mindset Shifts for Happiness
14:34 Chapter 3: Actions to Be Happier
21:19 Conclusion
🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
ORDER MY BOOK
THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER
STAY CONNECTED:
MY INSTAGRAM
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
MY YOUTUBE
MY VLOGS
LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
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Business enquiries: [email protected]
*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!
By Tam Kaur4.8
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[ad] This is a paid advertisement by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/selfobsessed and get on your way to being your best self.
the happiness trap 💭— in this podcast, i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me break free from the constant chase for success and finally understand what real fulfillment feels like. after hitting 100,000 subscribers in 2022 and still feeling empty, i realized i had fallen into the arrival fallacy — the belief that happiness exists in the next achievement. this episode is all about resetting your relationship with success, detoxing from quick dopamine highs, and building daily habits that support long-term peace. from reframing your goals to practicing resilience, gratitude, and guided journaling, this is your reminder that happiness isn’t a destination — it’s a daily choice. let’s reconnect with the present, redefine what it means to feel “enough,” and build a life rooted in meaning, not milestones. ✨
♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST:
00:00 Introduction: The Illusion of Happiness
02:05 Chapter 1: Happiness Myths That Are Keeping You Stuck
09:15 Chapter 2: Mindset Shifts for Happiness
14:34 Chapter 3: Actions to Be Happier
21:19 Conclusion
🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:
SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!
SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL
PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL
ORDER MY BOOK
THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER
STAY CONNECTED:
MY INSTAGRAM
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]
MY YOUTUBE
MY VLOGS
LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS
PODCAST INSTAGRAM
MY OTHER LINKS
Business enquiries: [email protected]
*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

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