Do you know how to find your JSpot? No you didn’t read this wrong..the “J” stands for joy and if you are not feeling excitement and bogged down with a lot of stress, it will be hard to find dating fun!  You can make the process more enjoyable by approaching dating with a lighthearted joyful attitude, focusing on the present moment, and being yourself.  This week on the show, Kimmy has a conversation with best-selling author and speaker Shari Alyse, who is known as the Joy Magnet who works with people to live joyful lives.    EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot:  Interview With Shari Alyse   Shari shares candidly about experiencing childhood sexual abuse and how that trauma impacted the trajectory of her life and her ability to feel true joy. Shari shares how she felt disconnected from herself and her journey to reconnect to herself, and her happiness.  Kimmy asks Shari what her life was like when she was in a dark place and what strategies she used to move forward. Shari discusses strategies around healing, starting with finding joy and acknowledging where you are and what really feels good to you.  Shari and Kimmy talk about Shari’s dating life and how she started to turn her life around and prioritize what she wanted. Listen in to hear Shari’s top tips about how to ignite joy in your life.    This conversation will remind you that joy, levity and play are within your reach! If you are not feeling the spark of joy or flirtiness in your life, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com   Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it’s fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!   ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot:  Interview With Shari Alyse.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups