It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more.
Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email him at [email protected].)
It’s time to STOP swiping without luck, and START getting quality matches and dates every week. Listen now!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"On the apps, it's better to have great photos and mediocre texting skills than great texting skills and mediocre photos." -Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
03:15 - Navigating Dating: Quality Over Quantity
05:17 - Unveiling the Texting-Profile Connection
08:07 - Building Connection Through Giving and Asking
10:13 - Texting Turn Offs: Avoiding the Over asking Trap
11:09 - How to Avoid Common Pitfalls in Dating Apps
13:48 - The Sweet Spot: Striking a Balance in Asking Her Out
15:35 - The Dos and Don'ts of Taking It Offline
24:08 - Navigating the First Week After Getting Her Number
31:17 - The Profile Makeover: Crafting a Winning Online Dating Persona
36:17 - Decoding Match Ratios in Online Dating
40:12 - Outro

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Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with.
Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillars of Dating Confidence. Use these four practical steps to feel more attractive and magnetic than ever. It’s time to stop doubting yourself and start dating amazing women.

Listen now and transform your confidence!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC: www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"Confidence is like chocolate, money, and fresh air: You can never have too much of it."- Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:22 - Empower YourDating Journey: The 4 Pillars of Confidence
03:34 - Dating Beyond Doubt: Unleashing Your Worth
07:32 - Redefining Attraction: Embracing Your Unique Self
08:58 - Belief in Action: Driving Towards Dating Success
12:42 - Defying Stereotypes: Embrace Your Unique Qualities
15:53 - Empowering Self-Image: Embrace Your Authentic Worth
18:40 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically
24:16 - Building Abundance: Elevate Your Dating Options
28:36 - Thriving with Dating Abundance Mindset
31:17 - Letting Go of Outcome and Embracing Process
34:31 - Dating with Certainty: Letting Confidence Lead the Way
26:13 - Outro

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Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating!
You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also shares the RIGHT way to flirt with women, and how to do it with natural confidence and authenticity, to create real connections.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


Quotes

"When you flirt with true authenticity, you're giving women the gift that they most want: the real, best you!".-Connell Barrett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction
01:48 - The Right and Wrong Ways to Communicate with Women
03:02 - Waiter Persona: Navigating Over-the-Top Communication
06:43 - The Power of Being Present and Genuine
09:24 - Avoiding Supplicating Pitfalls: Mastering Dating Channels
13:20 - Authentic Attraction: Beyond Supplication and Cockiness
17:48 - Genuine Connection over Performative Acts
19:14 - The Power of Vulnerability: Connecting Authentically
21:12 - Real Talk: Forging Genuine Bonds in Dating
23:10 - Building Trust: Authenticity and Shit Detectors
24:38 - Breaking Barriers: Honesty and Connection in Dating
26:19 - Story Swapping: Crafting Memorable Conversations
29:47 - Outro


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Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating?

It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or steely self-confidence when you talk to your crush. Listen now and give women what they REALLY want: a feel-good experience with your most attractive, authentic self.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"When flirting with your crush, don't be too sexual too soon. Be a charming PG-rated rom-com, not Cinemax After Dark."- Connell Barrett

"Text flirting is an art. Use humor, intrigue, and teasing to create a magnetic connection that keeps her engaged and excited." Connell Barret

Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters:
00:22 - Introduction
01:20 - The Flirting Dilemma: Expert Tips to Break the Silence
03:17 - The Science of Friendly and Flirty Communication
08:04 - Flirting 101: Clarity Over Cleverness
09:51 - Openers That Work: Captivating Her Attention with Words
11:21 - PG and G-Rated: Navigating the Flirting Spectrum
14:02 - Navigating the Line: Joking Without Crossing Boundaries
15:43 - Sending the Right Image to Spark Interest
18:48 - Adding Playful Bragging to Your Text Flirting
20:23 - Mastering the Emojiverse: Crafting Memorable Flirty Texts
23:36 - How Your Voice Elevates Flirty Conversations
25:19 - Voice Notes: Unlocking Self-Confidence and Dating Success
30:23 - Cracking the Code of Escaping the Friend Zone
32:33 - Confidence through Posture: The Masculine Stance
37:43 - Outro

So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing.

When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you’re seeing into your romantic partner. How? He shares 7 simple moves to go from “seeing each other” to “loving, connected relationship.” Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"If you want an awesome woman in your life, you need an awesome life into which to invite her."- Connell Barrett

"But when you settle, you miss out on finding the right person. So just don't settle."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:05 - Introduction
05:46 - Transition to Exclusive Dating: Richard's Success
06:23 - Confidence for Dream Girlfriends
07:23 - Timing Matters: When to Commit to Your Ideal Partner
09:25 - Aligning Life Goals: Building a Strong Foundation
10:22 - The Path to Your Girlfriend: Embrace Your Standards
17:10 - The Key to Attracting the Right Partner
18:32 - Confidence in Action: Taking Charge in Small Ways
20:47 - The Manly Side: Acts of Protection and Care
24:28 - Timing and Location: Choosing the Perfect Setting
27:17 - Seeking Fulfillment: Embracing Meaningful Connections
28:56 - Giving and Growing with Your Partner29:59 - Outro

You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance.

Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it!

In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way that gets GREAT reactions. He also shatters a HUGE myth about approaching, so you can start meeting and dating some wonderful women, and do it with authenticity and integrity. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You should approach women the way you approach life: with authenticity, courage, and empathy for women. Women love courageous, authentic, empathetic men"- Connell Barrett

"You gotta fully commit, be vulnerable, and always be authentic. Put your real, authentic self out there, and that's the best way to spark and interact."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:36 - Introduction
01:29 - Fearless Approach: Expanding Dating Options
03:18 - Embracing Rejection: Full Commitment in Approaching
09:30 - Positive Encounters: Power of Smiles and Greetings
11:51 - Embrace the Risk: Safe Approaching Strategies
12:38 - Apologies vs. Confidence: The Impact on Approaching
14:40 - From Great Conversations to Bold Actions
16:24 - Authentic Connections: Taking Safe Risks
19:04 - Unleash Your Character: Maximum Fun at Nightclub
21:26 - Quick Connections: Getting Her Number in 10 Minutes
22:35 - Outro

Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.”

Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become magnetic to your next date, so you can spark a romantic, authentic connection… and get her asking YOU questions.

Listen now, to make your next date great.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"It's OK to ask her questions on first date. Just ask the RIGHT questions, or else you'll bore her, and there will be no second date."- Connell Barrett

"Be true to yourself and find the emotional connections we all share. We have more in common than we realize"- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:47 - Breaking Free from the Interrogation Mode
02:40 - Overcoming Interview Mode Misconceptions
07:18 - Creating a Connection on the First Date
11:18 - The Art of Asking Good Questions on Dates
18:17 - Bonding through Shared Passions
22:10 - Teasing Playfully: Sharing Concert Experiences
23:49 - Connecting through Childhood Tales
26:00 - Asking Game-Changing Questions on First Dates
27:21 - Building Trust and Connection: The Power of Questions
27:53 - Outro

If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out.

The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and confidently attract the kinds of women you’re into… and find a great girlfriend!

Are you ready to have FUN while dating, and make romantic connections with desirable women? Listen now, and use the 5 Super Shifts to attract your soulmate, and do it with authenticity and confidence.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"You may not know how attractive you are to a LOT of wonderful women, but you are enough! Before a woman buys into that, you have to."- Connell Barrett

"Embrace fear, harness its power, and let it drive action in your romantic life."- Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:14 - Introduction
04:19 - Building Confidence in Romantic Pursuits
05:56 - Flirting with Charm: Mastering the Art of Romantic Connections
07:31 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs: How They Impact Your Dating Success
09:52 - The Power of Beliefs: Shaping Your Reality and Confidence
16:35 - Embracing Your Awesomeness and Focusing on What You Want
17:42 - Building Confidence: Embracing Your Worth in Dating
18:52 - Rituals for Romantic Success: Daily Commitment to Your Goals
22:35 - Fear & Failure: The Road to Dating Success
24:08 - Transforming Your Love Life with Conviction
27:12 - Achieving Dating Triumph through Persistence
28:34 - Outro

Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this!

In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidence, and shares the one thing you need to do on your next date to be fun and flirty, and get her into you. Listen now!

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3

Quotes

"Women don't put men in the Friend Zone. We do it to yourselves! How? By being inauthentic and talking to women like Platonic Pals."."- Connell Barrett

"Rejection is crucial for growth; it doesn't define your worth." - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:13 - Introduction
01:30 - Escaping the Friend Zone Trap: Dating Myth Busted
03:28 - Friend to Friend: Mastering Communication
04:48 - Emotional & Romantic Expressions in Dating
07:30 - Playful Teasing and Authentic Dating
09:52 - Leveraging Your Verbal Abilities with Ease
14:08 - Sexual Liberation vs. Emotional Growth
16:05 - Beyond the Alpha Male: Redefining Masculinity in Dating
23:32 - Embracing Rejection as a Pathway to Personal Growth
24:31 - Craving Specialness: Understanding Our Psyche
30:31 - Mastering Rejection with Brunch Table Perspective
33:02 - Outro