So you want to talk to women you notice IRL—in bars, coffee shops, at the gym—but you just know what to say without seeming creepy. In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—shares his 3-step approaching framework so you’ll know exactly what to say to break the ice in a charming way. The great news? Connell’s approaching method is virtually rejection-proof! And you don’t need to memorize weird pickup-artist lines. You can confidently talk to women anywhere, while being spontaneous and in the moment. Stop struggling with approaching and start confidently meeting women, and do it with charm and authenticity. Listen now to learn how!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED): http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


Quotes

"Release the pressure to be perfect; authentic words resonate more deeply than the perfect script." - Connell Barnett

"Engage with light, playful compliments and watch simple interactions blossom into memorable moments." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:01 - Approach Women with Genuine Charm
04:02 - No Perfect Words: Use This Framework
07:28 - Compliment Beyond Looks
10:33 - Ask Sincere Questions, Expect Warmth
16:01 - Tailor Compliments to the Context
17:58 - Smoothie Date from an Indirect Compliment
21:21 - Prep Mentally Before Approaching Women
22:11 - Outro

Do you struggle to get women writing you back on the apps? Do you get ghosted on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge… and don’t know why? It’s frustrating, and can make you want to delete the apps. But help is on the way! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast, your host—dating coach Connell Barrett—identifies 3 dating app mistakes that you make when writing openers. Plus, Connell shares the flirty, 12-word opener that gets him a 77% percent response rate on the apps with wonderful women. Stop getting ghosted and start sending openers that women love! Listen now.

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

Quotes

"Engage women with fun, flirty questions—not just logic and information—to spark lively conversations." - Connell Barnett

"Improve your match success by refining your opening lines for better connections." - Connell Barnett

Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation

Website:https://datingtransformation.com

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Crafting Effective Dating App Openers
03:25 - Engage with Fun, Playful Questions
09:52 - Personalize Messages with Profile Insights
10:36 - Initiate Chats by Noting Unique Traits
15:37 -  Opt for Fun, Light Conversation Starters
17:50 - 'Opposites Attract' for Engaging Chats
24:03 - The 12-Word Power Opener
28:49 - Value Authenticity in Compliments and Questions
30:21 - Start with Intrigue to Avoid the Friend Zone32:12 - Outro

Do you feel like you’re just not good-looking or not tall enough to attract wonderful women and find a great girlfriend? Well, think again! Those are two of the 7 deadly dating myths that can hurt your confidence and make it difficult to connect with women. Never fear! In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett runs down each of these 7 hurtful dating myths, and offers you 7 new and improved strategies to help you flirt and connect with incredible women… and help you find the dream girlfriend you want. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"Height isn't everything; a man can make a woman feel protected and cherished through confidence, muscle, assertive speech, and skilled flirting." - Connell Barnett

"If you see a woman you want to meet, approach her right away. Waiting too long lets doubt creep in." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 5 Biggest Common Dating Frustrations
03:00 - Debunking Dating Myths: No Need for Perfection
05:25 - Blending Humor with Flirtation in Dating
08:52 - Jason's Genuine Approach Captivates an Attorney
13:04 - Confidence: Key to Dating Success
15:27 - The 3-Second Rule for Approaching Women
17:57 - Conversation Skills Aren't Crucial
22:05 - Rejections as Courageous Opportunities
23:38 - Interest Shifts with Time
27:07 - Outro

In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you fix 5 of the most frustrating dating problems men face. He shares texting secrets to help you STOP getting ghosted, reveals why women love nice guys (not “alpha males”), and shares his favorite move for going for the first kiss. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

Would you like to stop doubting yourself and start confidently connecting with wonderful women—without using sketchy pickup artist tricks? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett talks about the night that transformed his love life and his self-confidence. Are you ready to harness the power of your own Authenticity, flirt with charm, and find a wonderful woman who loves you for you? Then listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend

Not knowing what to say is the biggest thing that stops you from approaching women in bars, coffee shops, or at your gym. And if you talk to women sometimes, do you flirt correctly? Or do you come off as boring, or even creepy? It’s hard to know! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you 10 flirty questions to ask women when you approach, so you can confidently know exactly what to say when you approach… and get numbers and dates. Listen now! And remember to approach with AUTHENTICITY! Because women like you for you.



FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact



GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend



Quotes

"Syncing with emotions is key. It's about embracing the emotional wavelength—fun and playfulness intertwined." -Connell Barnett

“Genuine connections thrive when you show interest in understanding her true self."- Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell BarrettFounder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:53 - Mastering Interaction with 10 Key Questions
03:35 - The Key to Engagement06:58 - Love Life Transformation
12:26 - Inquiring About Her Company
13:37 - Turning Misunderstandings Around
17:09 - Breaking Stereotypes
21:54 - Positive Work Inquiries: Elevating Conversations
23:19 - Boosting Attraction Levels25:18 - Outro 

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If you struggle to flirt with women, guess what: You’re likely making some common flirting mistakes, and you don’t even know it! If you fall into any of these 10 flirting traps, you’ll get ghosted or friend-zoned. But if you FIX these flirting mistakes, you'll start making sparks fly and find your dream girlfriend. Dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 10 most common flirting mistakes men make, and he gives you 10 instant fixes—so you can flirt with confidence and authenticity, with ZERO pickup-artist sleaziness. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"All it took was a bit of small talk, sharing our names, our stories, our vulnerabilities—simple steps to meaningful connections.”-Connell Barnett"

Spice up conversations by discussing your loves and hates, adding depth and interest to your dialogue."- Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
01:52 - Mastering Confident Flirting: Tips to Captivate and Attract
05:06 - Delicately Inquiring About Her Kissing Preferences
09:03 - Elevate Your Dating Journey: Embrace Confidence Coaching
10:44 - Timing Matters: Appreciation Interplays with Woman's Perception
15:11 - Authenticity in Communication: Keeping It Genuine, Vulnerable
18:10 - Embracing Innocence: How a Pure Approach Resonates
20:55 - The Power of Physical Touch in Flirting: Balancing Calibration
25:30 - Flattery: Finding the Sweet Spot for Genuine Connection
28:37 - Playful Banter: Teasing and Joking with Subtle Accusations
32:01 - Emotional Depth: Initiating Connections through Feelings
36:23 - Unwind and Engage: Let Your Authentic Self Guide Conversations
37:22 - Mastering Conversations: Navigating with the 80 20 Rule
38:40 - Outro

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Have you ever been scammed or catfished on a dating app? It’s infuriating and scary! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett advises an unlucky guy who’s being “sextorted” for $1,000 by a scammer from a dating app. Plus, Connell helps a lonely listener get over the bitterness and resentment he feels toward women. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact



GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3



READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend



Quotes

"Confidently approach women, excel on dating apps, charm effortlessly, and attract your dream partner.”.-Connell Barnett

"Embrace challenges as pathways to growth, not obstacles to success."- Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation



Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:49 - Unveiling a Scam Linked to Explicit Photos on a Dating App
03:53 - Avoiding Blackmail: How to Safeguard Your Privacy
04:32 - Reporting Evidence to Stop Sextortion and Promote Awareness
07:12 - Martin's Journey: Overcoming Bitterness in the Search for Love
10:44 - Pain to Purpose: Lessons from Viktor Frankl's Masterpiece
12:40 - Transforming Dating Struggles into Growth: Insights from a Book
13:42 - Triumphing Over Personal Hurdles to Thrive as a Dating Coach
17:18 - Unlocking Personal Growth Through Dating Mastery
19:30 - Conquering Envy, Cultivating Growth, and Building Empathy with Women
20:35 - Understanding Women's Perspectives: Giving to Win Love
23:46 - Embrace Your True Self: Your Dream Girlfriend Awaits
24:00 - Outro

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If you aren’t sure how to talk to women… if you run out of things to say… if dates end with you trapped in the “friend zone,” then this is the episode for you. Connell is about to give you the secret weapon to STOP running out of things to say and START confidently flirting with cool, cute girls. It’s called Man-to-Woman Communication, a powerful, turbo-charged way of romantically connecting with women. Your dating life is about to change. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND: http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"When sparks fly between two people, mastering 'man to woman communication' ensures consistent romantic connections.”.-Connell Barnett

"Playfully tease to create attraction, but avoid sensitive topics like appearance, family, job, or pets."- Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of DatingTransformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


Chapters
00:00 - Inrtoduction
00:48 - Unveiling Connell Barrett's Secret Flirting Formula
05:51 - Igniting Romantic Connections Through Flirting
09:23 - Categorizing Women's Encounters into Three Frames
10:46 - Booking a Free Dating Coaching Call
14:06 - Balancing Communication: Sincerity and Flirtatious Elements
18:12 - Subtly Appreciating Non-Physical Traits
20:06 - Enhancing Voice Projection Techniques
23:03 - Connecting through Gaze: The Key to Impress on First Dates
24:06 - Unexpected Sparks on an Intense First Date
26:06 - Navigating Playful Teasing: Building Attraction Without Offense
29:15 - Subtle Physical Expressions and Reciprocation Awareness
31:56 - Infusing Fun and Playfulness into Dating Communication
33:24 - Outro

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Are you five-feet-eight or shorter? Does that make you feel less confident around tall, attractive women? Do you struggle on the apps because you feel women want taller guys? In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett helps you fix those issues. How? By coaching a lonely, five-foot-five listener who’s considering a drastic step: breaking and lengthening his legs to become more attractive to women. If you’re on the shorter side and you want to confidently attract a wonderful girlfriend, this is the episode for you. Listen now!


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO WOMEN: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


GET CONNELL’S NO. 1 BESTSELLING GUIDE FOR MEN, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T,” YOUR PRACTICAL GUIDE ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND BY BEING RADICALLY AUTHENTIC:
www.amazon.com/Dating-Sucks-but-You-Dont-ebook/dp/B08LDZL3


READ CONNELL’S 47 TIPS ON HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/how-to-get-a-girlfriend


Quotes

"Women seek a confident, authentic man who values and cherishes them, regardless of height”.-Connell Barnett

"Build a strong sense of self-worth beyond height. Discover ten unique qualities that make you a great catch."- Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode

Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:00 - Introduction
00:00 - Connell Barrett, Dating Coach, Tackles Height Hurdles.
06:18 - Rise in Leg-Lengthening Procedures for Men.
08:18 - Building Confidence to Attract Your Ideal Women.
12:20 - Height: An Asset, Not a Dating Prerequisite.
16:35 - Most Women Find Height Inconsequential.
19:12 - Enhanced Profiles Yield Dating Triumphs.
21:19 - Boost Confidence, Showcase Yourself, Attract Opportunities.
23:21 - Outro

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