It's common for my clients to speak about feeling a sense of "disconnect" during lovemaking. This can be due to a slew of reasons, and there are no one-size-fits-all solutions, although, there are some common misconceptions around performance anxiety that I address in this episode.

If you desire to feel embodied, confident, and effortlessly oozing with pleasure in your sxual experiences then this episode is for you!

I cover various topics explaining why "disconnect" is normal, but not necessarily including;

• Demystifying "headiness"/Shoulder's up living
• Understanding your triggers & why you dissociate
• The four trauma responses
• Anxiety habits & how this creates disembodiment
• Self-soothing vs self-care (and how to create your unique (self-soothing sequence)
• When it’s actually not safe to be in the body & why trusting your coping mechanisms is the key to success.

I also share a range of tips that you can implement today on;

• Effective Meditation techniques
• How to notice when you’re disconnecting in the day-t-day
• Becoming aware of feelings (And what to do with them)
• Breathe medicine
• How to own what’s happening with confidence
• Requesting space to reconnect
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And of course... My fabulous new offering Shadow Seductress and how it will assist you in embodiment & confidence.

Enjoy my loves!

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