Are you feeling like all first dates are boring or superficial? What if you had more control over the dates and actually created amazing dates filled with chemistry and desire to see your date again? First dates should be fun, playful, and exciting! But all too often, people describe their first dates as completely dull and dry. This week on the Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is on a mission to eliminate bad first dates for good! Listen in to a lively, fun interview with fellow dating coach for men Matt Artisan, where they tackle your biggest first date fears from both a woman's and man's perspective.   EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Give A Great First Date:  Interview With Matt Artisan   If you're feeling stressed out, burnt out and sick of virtual dating, the last thing you want is another boring video date! This show will give you the roadmap for how to have an incredible first date, whether you're meeting online or in-person. This episode will empower you to take control of the conversation and uplevel your flirting skills so you can create intrigue and attraction, all while being honestly and authentically YOU! Matt and Kimmy discuss the pressure both men and women put on one another to drive the conversation without taking the reins themselves. If you're nervous, chances are your date is too and that can cause you to forget to open up, be curious and really try to get to know your date on a deeper level. These two experts share hacks both men and women can do to increase their approachability and likability factor.  Matt shares some great tips about how to introduce physical touch safely, amazing ideas for first dates that allow you to get to know one another more deeply, and easy tricks to help you think of what to say if you blank out. Kimmy dives in on how to improve your flirt game and body language so that you send the right signals to let your date know you're interested.  When you allow yourself to have fun through the dating process and practice opening up and showing your true self, you're building your confidence muscle so you can feel comfortable in your body and show what you have to offer in a relationship.    If you're feeling like you're having trouble connecting on first dates and struggling to create chemistry by flirting, sign up for a complimentary Flirt Booster Session with Kimmy where she will diagnose specific challenges you are having in your conversations and on dates and speak to how you can skip the shallow small talk and have better connections overall https://bvjh4x6h.pages.infusionsoft.net/. And to start putting yourself into action, sign up for Kimmy’s *NEW* 5-Day Flirt Accelerator Challenge. It runs Sept 28 - Oct 2 and it’s FREE! https://28xztw45.pages.infusionsoft.net/. First dates should be fun! Put an end to boring first dates by letting your personality, energy and vibrance shine through every time!     EPISODE 160 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  How To Give A Great First Date:  Interview With Matt Artisan.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣   ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣   ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣   ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣   ************************************************⁣  This Podcast is available on:⁣  Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/Charisma_Quotient ⁣  Libsyn: https://charismaquotient.libsyn.com/⁣  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mLh5AwLC0xryeKzKyph2g  And many other podcast sites.   ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Twitter:  https://twitter.com/kimmyseltzer/ ⁣ Facebook:  https://facebook.com/kimmyseltzer/     Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers