Hotter Than Ever

How To Have a Truly Intimate Relationship with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell


Listen Later

“Having a fantastic relationship is a learnable skill.”

So many of us crave deeper connection, more spark, and a sense of feeling not just content, but truly alive, decades into love and relationships. But what if your desire has dulled, your partnership feels stuck on autopilot, or you’re no longer even sure what you want, let alone how to ask for it? Enter Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, “The Intimacy Doctor”, a physician, relationship coach, author, and podcast host, whose mission is to help women and couples create conscious, erotically vibrant partnerships in midlife and beyond.


Join us for a candid and empowering conversation with Dr. Stockwell on breaking the cycle of compromise, rediscovering your desires, and bringing more pleasure into your life… and your bedroom. We dive into why:


  • Great relationships and intimacy are built through intention and skill, not just chemistry or time
  • Desire alone isn't enough to sustain relationships and the importance of reflecting on how deeply you truly want something
  • Many women discover deeper pleasure and connection later in life
  • Uncompromising intimacy, rather than compromise, is the real secret to a nourishing, fulfilling relationship
  • Everyday interactions shape long-term intimacy just as much as what happens in the bedroom
  • Curiosity and asking open-ended questions can reignite emotional and sexual intimacy with your partner
  • Vulnerably sharing how something made you feel creates more connection than placing blame


OUR GUEST: Alexandra Stockwell, MD, “The Intimacy Doctor”, is a relationship and intimacy expert who helps high-achieving couples create emotionally connected, erotically vibrant partnerships. A physician-turned-coach, she’s the bestselling author of Uncompromising Intimacy, host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. Married for 28 years with four children, Dr. Alexandra teaches that the key to lasting passion isn’t compromise, it’s authenticity. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, and more.


Want more Dr. Stockwell? Find her online at https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/ and listen to her podcast, “The Intimate Marriage Podcast”, using the link below or wherever you get your podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-intimate-marriage-podcast-with-intimacy/id1548060690 


Follow her on: 

  • IG: @intimacydoctor  
  • FB: @Intimacydoctor  
  • Youtube: @intimacydoctor  
  • Tiktok: @intimacydoctor  
  • LinkedIn: alexandrastockwell  


Want more Hotter Than Ever? Subscribe to the Hotter Than Ever Substack to dive deeper. 


Find episode transcripts at www.hotterthaneverpod.com 


Follow us on:

  • Instagram: @hotterthaneverpod  
  • TikTok: @hotterthaneverpod   
  • Youtube: @hotterthaneverpod  
  • Facebook: @hotterthaneverpod  


Follow Hotter Than Ever wherever you listen to podcasts - we’re on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and more! That way you’ll never miss an episode. 


We’d love to hear what you think about the show - it helps us know what stories are resonating with you. DM us on Instagram and write us a review!

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Hotter Than EverBy Erin Keating

  • 4.4
  • 4.4
  • 4.4
  • 4.4
  • 4.4

4.4

150 ratings


More shows like Hotter Than Ever

View all
The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,305 Listeners

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler by Christine Hassler

Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

1,630 Listeners

Women of Impact by Impact Theory

Women of Impact

659 Listeners

ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka by Tracy Otsuka

ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka

53 Listeners

See You Sunday by Jasmine Shah

See You Sunday

499 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,238 Listeners

Everyday Better with Leah Smart by LinkedIn

Everyday Better with Leah Smart

331 Listeners

Passion Struck with John R. Miles by John R. Miles

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

726 Listeners

Dear Gabby by Gabby Bernstein

Dear Gabby

6,073 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Glennon Doyle and Audacy

We Can Do Hard Things

41,435 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,604 Listeners

Debt Heads by Jamie Feldman & Rachel Webster

Debt Heads

250 Listeners

The Jamie Kern Lima Show by Jamie Kern Lima

The Jamie Kern Lima Show

2,539 Listeners

The Hilary Silver Podcast by Hilary Silver

The Hilary Silver Podcast

255 Listeners

Mind If We Talk? by BetterHelp

Mind If We Talk?

30 Listeners