Sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander join PRETTYSMART to discuss their mission to help people have more (and better!) sex. They share:

• What made them decide to start working together and helping others improve their sex lives.
• What is off limits for them when it comes to talking about sex publicly.
• Their philosophy on why sex is so important in relationships.
• What it really means to have great sex.
• Why we are all afraid to talk about sex.
• How sex changes as we age.
• The two different sex drive types and how they impact our sex lives.
• Ways to open up to your partner about sex (and prompts to help you feel more comfortable doing so!)
• How to get your partner to initiate more.
• If it's normal to squirt or not during sex.
• How to bring new relationship energy back to your sex life.
• What to do if you've been faking your orgasms.
• How to communicate any sexual fantasies you might have.
• The impact the porn industry has had on our sex lives and how we all think about sex.
• Why you should reframe the way you think about the number of sexual partners you've had.

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