Relationship Advice

How To Heal Insecure Attachment With Julie Menanno


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Joined by special guest, Julie Menanno, our hosts sit down to discuss how to heal insecure attachment by focusing on self-awareness, emotional regulation, and developing a secure relationship with oneself. She emphasizes that attachment wounds manifest through self-abandonment, which leads to unhealthy relational patterns. Healing involves learning to sit with and process difficult emotions rather than seeking external reassurance, shifting from self-protection to self-support. In relationships, individuals must take turns being caregivers for one another, creating an attachment-friendly environment that fosters trust and security.


Listen to learn more about topics like: 

  • Self-Abandonment as the Root Issue
  • Emotional Processing Over Quick Regulation
  • Building Secure Attachment with Self
  • Discerning Between Attachment Triggers and Relationship Red Flags
  • and more!


  • Julies Bio & Links:

    Julie Menanno MA, LMFT, LCPC, is a therapist, author, and creator of The Secure Relationship, a community dedicated to helping people build secure, loving relationships. With over 1.3 million Instagram followers, Julie’s relatable advice and real-time couples therapy sessions have made her a trusted voice in relational health. Her book Secure Love, published by Simon & Schuster in 2024, dives deep into attachment theory and is available worldwide. 

    Secure Love, written by Julie Menanno

    The Secure Love Podcast


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