Jealousy and envy can feel shameful, but they often reveal important fears, longings, and unmet needs beneath the surface. In this episode, we explore the difference between jealousy, the fear of losing something we already have, and envy, the pain of wanting something we do not feel like we have. We also talk through how to slow these emotions down, bring them to your partner with vulnerability, and move away from control, criticism, monitoring, or resentment.

Main Talking Points:

Jealousy vs Envy

Fear Of Loss

Reassurance Seeking

Control Patterns

Vulnerable Communication

Relationship Boundaries

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