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How To Uplevel Your Solo Sex Life

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Techniques are efficient, strategic ways of getting a job done or wanted outcome achieved. Advanced Techniques bring together many skills at once to create extraordinary results – and that’s what happened when we brought our 20 years experience as somatic sex educators to the quest of creating the most comprehensive, powerful curriculum about oral play for all bodies. 



From sustainable deep throating to irreverent irrumatio, from contemplative cunnilingus to masterful ManuOral, this episode introduces some of the Advanced Oral Techniques we developed while researching and developing our brand new course on oral pleasure. 



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Advanced Oral Techniques


Has oral become a chore? Do you offer dutiful or obligatory oral, but struggle to enjoy it? What happens when we go beyond the scripts and shoulds and start getting curious about what else is possible?



Grab our FREE Recipe for the Best. Oral. Ever. here! or jump into our brand new course and master the artistry of oral play with us! 



























Beyond Obligatory Oral


Here’s how to wake up your mouth as a site of erotic pleasure, power and expression. In this episode we share the first step of oral eroticization – becoming aware of your mouth as a place of enjoyment, on your own terms, and doubling down on the pleasure you experience from your own mouth. 



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In this podcast episode, Chris and Charlotte, the Pleasure Mechanics, invite us to embrace the concept of oral eroticization as a key ingredient in enhancing our sexual experiences. This episode tackles a crucial element missing from the conversation around oral sex – the eroticization of our mouths. By bringing awareness to our own mouths as potent zones of sensation and pleasure, we open the door to a world of new discoveries about ourselves and our desires.



The process of oral eroticization is a deeply personal and incremental one. It requires us to be present and attentive to our own pleasures and preferences, allowing ourselves the space to explore what brings us joy and what resonates with our sensual selves. By engaging in self-oral eroticization practices, we can gradually awaken our mouths to a heightened state of sensitivity and pleasure.



If you’re intrigued by the idea of delving deeper into the world of oral eroticization, the Pleasure Mechanics offer a brand new course designed to guide you on this transformative journey. Explore at your own pace in the Oral Mastery course or join the group coaching cohort for personalized support and community connection as you master the art of oral eroticism.

Eroticize Your Mouth


Our brand new course is ready for you to devour! Join us for guided immersive exploration of oral pleasure for ALL bodies! 



You can explore the self-paced online course or join us for the group coaching cohort – be one of the Lucky 69 participants to join us as we come together to dive deep into this course, offering you our personalized support every step of the way. 







Oral is one of the most beloved erotic experiences for so many, and yet it is something that many people struggle to enjoy.



Many find it to be the MOST intimate of expressions, and end up shutting it down out of vulnerability, shyness or shame. 



If you are someone who struggles with giving or receiving oral sex you are not alone, and this course is for you. It is designed to invite you into a more authentic erotic relationship with your own mouth, and from there discover what exquisite oral pleasures look like, specifically for you and your lover right now. 



You’ll gain skills in both giving and receiving oral, strategies to overcome common roadblocks and communication techniques to get to your Best. Oral. Ever. 



Ready for mind blowing oral pleasures and life changing erotic confidence? 



Join Us – either in the self-paced course or as one of the Lucky 69 members of our Group Coaching Journey





Open Wide: Your Invitation To Oral Mastery





It’s time to stop dick shaming in all of its forms – from small dick jokes to cruel comments to the hypersexualization of some men and emasculation of others, it is time to call an end to a culture that normalizes dick shaming. 



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