How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Write Irresistible Openers on the Apps + The Easy Way to Text and Get Dates (Part 3 of 5)


Listen Later

Do you struggle to write good openers? Do the women you text tend to ghost you? Help is on the way! In part 3 of this week’s special series on how to get a great girlfriend, your host—dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett—teaches you how to write irresistible openers on the apps that women reply to. Then he shares his simple, 4-step texting framework so you’ll always know what to message women, leading to more dates. And you’ll do all of this with authentic charm—no weird pickup tricks needed.


In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett will discuss:

(4:28) The Real Reason You Struggle on the Dating Apps

(7:27) The 3 Kinds of Openers NOT to Send

(9:01) The 3 Secrets to Writing Openers that Women Love

(10:25) How to Personalize Your Openers to Get Replies

(12:57) The BIG Mistake You’re Making in the Apps

(13:45) Why Women Love, Love, Love Playful Messages

(15:30) How to Write the “Opposites Attract” Opener

(17:58) How to Write the “Compliment + Nickname” Opener

(20:56) How to Write the “Pop Quiz” Opener

(28:00) 3 Tested Copy-Paste Openers that Women Love

(29:58) Connell’s 4-Step Texting Framework to Get You Dates

(32:57) A Breakdown of a Flirty Text Exchange with Suzy

(38:30) Exactly When to Ask Women Out

(40:32) Why Connell’s New “Surprisingly Sexy” Opener Works with ANY Woman

(43:15) Your Dating Mission for this Episode


Are you ready to stop getting ghosted and start getting dates? Listen now!


Quotes

"Learn her interests to tailor your approach; discussing them sparks meaningful conversations." - Connell Barnett

"Master teasing by staying light and avoiding sensitive topics like appearance or intelligence. Keep it fun, not personal." - Connell Barnett


Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website:https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell BarrettBy Connell Barrett

  • 4.5
  • 4.5
  • 4.5
  • 4.5
  • 4.5

4.5

118 ratings


More shows like How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

View all
Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want by Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

1,174 Listeners

How To Talk To Girls Podcast by Tripp Kramer

How To Talk To Girls Podcast

1,090 Listeners

Hidden Brain by Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam

Hidden Brain

43,466 Listeners

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships by Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

883 Listeners

Something You Should Know by Mike Carruthers | OmniCast Media

Something You Should Know

4,189 Listeners

NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast by NerdWallet Personal Finance

NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast

751 Listeners

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women by Melanie Curtin

Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

246 Listeners

The Unapologetic Man Podcast by Mark Sing

The Unapologetic Man Podcast

1,310 Listeners

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan by Heather Monahan | YAP Media

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan

1,152 Listeners

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos by Pushkin Industries

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

14,394 Listeners

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice by Dr. Morgan Anderson

Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

1,119 Listeners

How to Be a Better Human by TED

How to Be a Better Human

1,362 Listeners

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin by Money News Network

Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin

1,733 Listeners

The Sabrina Zohar Show by The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

4,651 Listeners

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan by Ilana Golan

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan

202 Listeners