Human Becoming

Human becoming returns (maybe?).This episode is a little hi! hello! how are you! before I return from my podcasting hiatus to get back to one of my favourite mediums.I talk about God and our large self, who human becoming is and who I am now (hint hint: who knows!), how I’ve been using Instagram as my metaphorical yoga mat, capitalism, and some of my intentions for this new era of the podcast.

Hello, dear human, and welcome to the Human Becoming podcast. It is so, so lovely to have you here.Human Becoming has been alive for 3 WHOLE YEARS. In that time, I’ve explored themes of shame, desire, sexuality, the shadow, magick, ancestral healing, somatics, money, and so much more. Wherever you are in your journey, Human Becoming has something special for you - and in this episode, I run through all the seasons and what they cover so that you can figure out where you want to jump in.Y...

I love the money magick coven.And sometimes I struggle to capture just how brilliant, transformative and magickal this work has been for me and my clients. So I’ve made a podcast episode that is all about WHY I love the money magick coven, and why I want YOU to join me in it.

We are wired for connection.We are attachment-oriented beings.What happens when our attachment relationships are disrupted or severed?This episode is all about the somatics of attachment: how our earliest attachment strategies develop, and how to support ourselves when they get activated.Break ups can be REALLY challenging for our bodies and nervous systems. My hope is that this episode supports you in meeting yourself with tenderness, compassion and care as you navigate attachment upsets!

Whorishness is one of my highest spiritual ideals (hail Babalon!)Today’s episode is all about my journey into whorishness, slutiness, sacred sexuality and God.If you’re a deeply spiritual being and a deeply sexual being (hint hint: we all are!)…If you’re curious about being a slut for God and the mysteries…If you’re wanting to ride the wild beast that is our reality with total approval and acceptance…And feel DEEPLY turned on as you do…this episode for you.

What’s the difference between desire and capacity when you’re dating someone new? (Or, when you’re just being a human in relationship with other humans!)In this episode we speak about the principles of capacity (what we are able to do) and desire (what we want to do), and how learning to understand the difference between the two can help us to navigate our relationships with more love, tenderness and compassion.

In this episode, I have the delight of speaking to my dear friend, brilliant artist and fellow magician Camille Bacon. Camille describes herself as a heap of blood and bones and a hefty dose of star sprinkle, the glitter on the oceans surface and the primordial rhythm of the deep. I describe her as a generator of worlds and culture, a leader of the new Aeon, a beloved devotee of the Gods and the mystery, and a prolific creator of the unnameable and unknowable yet-to-be.This epi...

This episode is about my recent decision to explore celibacy, how I’ve been feeling poly burned-out, where I choose partners that probably should just be my coaching clients, and what I’ve been learning about myself as a relational being through my recent romantic escapades (and non-escapades!).

In this episode, recorded at 1am, I speak about desire, my newfound commitment to celibacy, and how I am now devoted to remaining heart-open to finding my one true love and experiencing my happily ever after (yes, I believe in fairytale endings! and that’s what I want!)

I’ve made it a practice to notice the presence of good men in my life - one of whom is my dear friend, Tebza.In this podcast episode, we speak about men and masculinity in South Africa, what it was like for Tebza to grow up in Hillbrow and the lessons he learned about being a man inside and outside of his house, and how he is charting an alternative masculinity for himself that allows for more play, pleasure and flexibility, while keeping steadfast in his deep desire to stand up for injustice...