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What’s the difference between desire and capacity when you’re dating someone new? (Or, when you’re just being a human in relationship with other humans!)

In this episode we speak about the principles of capacity (what we are able to do) and desire (what we want to do), and how learning to understand the difference between the two can help us to navigate our relationships with more love, tenderness and compassion.

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In this episode, I have the delight of speaking to my dear friend, brilliant artist and fellow magician Camille Bacon. 

Camille describes herself as a heap of blood and bones and a hefty dose of star sprinkle, 
the glitter on the oceans surface and the primordial rhythm of the deep. 

I describe her as a generator of worlds and culture, a leader of the new Aeon, a beloved devotee of the Gods and the mystery, and a prolific creator of the unnameable and unknowable yet-to-be.

This episode is giggly, and sweet, as we speak about what brought Camille to their spiritual and creative practice, what it means to be in relationship with the spirits who choose co-create with us, and how we are constantly being initiated through our art.

We name and glorify our artistic ancestors, the many brilliant Black women who have come before us and the magic they have carried that has made 'us' possible.

We speak prayers over our past and present and future selves, and offer this recording up to our artistic and magickal descendants as a reminder to keep creating and working magick.

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This episode is about my recent decision to explore celibacy, how I’ve been feeling poly burned-out, where I choose partners that probably should just be my coaching clients, and what I’ve been learning about myself as a relational being through my recent romantic escapades (and non-escapades!).

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In this episode, recorded at 1am, I speak about desire, my newfound commitment to celibacy, and how I am now devoted to remaining heart-open to finding my one true love and experiencing my happily ever after (yes, I believe in fairytale endings! and that’s what I want!)

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I’ve made it a practice to notice the presence of good men in my life - one of whom is my dear friend, Tebza.

In this podcast episode, we speak about men and masculinity in South Africa, what it was like for Tebza to grow up in Hillbrow and the lessons he learned about being a man inside and outside of his house, and how he is charting an alternative masculinity for himself that allows for more play, pleasure and flexibility, while keeping steadfast in his deep desire to stand up for injustice and be a protective presence in the lives of the people around him. 

We speak about the masculine and the feminine, “what even is gender”, and our personal experiences of navigating these solar and lunar energies in our lives in a way that serves us and the people around us…

AND SO MUCH MORE.

Also, this episode includes my excessive mmms because I LOVE to mmmm!

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode, and hope you will too!

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In this episode I am joined by my dear friend, fellow mystic, and co-camp counsellor of Jesus Camp, Dani Bobby! 

We talk about the the great gnostic truth hidden within everyday sayings like "Jesus, take the wheel", how we can begin to understand the symbolic significance of the masculine and the feminine in the bible, why it's so important to bring the body into this consciousness raising work, and why the symbol of Jesus seems to pop up for so many magicians and witches who have have previously thought that they were "so not into the Jesus vibe".

Enjoy!

And if you're wanting to take this Jesus work deeper with us, you can enrol in Jesus Camp here:

https://www.tumimoloto.me/jesus-camp

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how do we forgive our abusers?

many of us have felt shamed, or moralised, into forgiveness. unfortunately, this idea that we “should” forgive others prevents us from knowing the deeply orgasmic, bubbling sensation of forgiveness arising in our being - not because we have told it that it “should”, but because forgiveness will naturally bubble up when we come into understanding our true Self.

in this episode, I don’t shy away from speaking about:

• rape and sexual assault
• colonisation
• apartheid
• white body supremacy
• patriarchy
• all the things I have really, really struggled to forgive (and ultimately have)

if you’re into this vibe, and you want to deepen in your own journey of coming into knowledge of your true Self and opening yourself up to the great current of forgiveness, you’re invited to Jesus Camp, an online 13 week long journey that’ll knock your socks off. curious to learn more?

you can check it out here:
https://www.tumimoloto.me/jesus-camp

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Jesus, bell hooks and Aleister Crowley walk into a bar.

Jesus says: “love each other as I have loved you”

Aleister Crowley says: “love is the law”

And bell hooks says: “it’s all about love, baby!”


All of these fabulous, descended masters carried a central transmission about the transformative, revolutionary and awakening power of Love.

In this episode, I talk about why - if I could have dinner with three people - I would choose Jesus, the son of man, Aleister Crowley, one of the most famed and hated occultists of the 20th century, and bell hooks - an artistic ancestor of mine who has guided my work for the past 8 years.

I speak about my personal meeting of Jesus, decolonisation, and how we can awaken to the knowledge that we are the second coming of Christ (and why it is urgent that we must).

This episode is also an invitation into my upcoming Jesus Camp (you can learn more about that here https://www.tumimoloto.me/jesus-camp) where we will be spending 13 weeks together exploring how we can awaken to our own personal Jesus.

Enjoy ⚡️

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We are in the apocalypse.

It is not a far off destination, something that we have the luxury to put off thinking about/feeling into/engaging with.

AND

What if apocalypse is not what we think it is - what if apocalypse is generative (or could be) - what if apocalypse is the necessary dark night of the soul that humanity must go through in service to the evolution of our consciousness?

In this episode, I speak about trust - and what it means to lean on trust, and faith, and hope, and possibility, in a world on fire (literally).

I speak about my recent experiences of meeting apocalypse, of having the somatic experience/sense/knowing of apocalypse, and how my ancestors have given me one simple message, which is this:

“You do not have the luxury of being hopeless. 
It is selfish to lose faith. 
You must believe, with every cell and fibre of your being, that another world is possible - and you must ACT like it - until you take your last breath.”

Enjoy.

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I am a love bomber. A narcissist. A gaslighter. A ghoster. A breadcrumber.

In this episode, we discuss these overused terms and how they can be used to invoke the drama triangle (a model created by Stephen Karpman that needs a victim, perpetrator, and bystander in order to create exquisite drama), and how that can lead to a static, boring terrain that is no fun to date in.

This episode is part cultural critique, part love philosophy, part intro to the drama triangle and shadow work, and a personal exploration of how many of these behaviors can be understood from a more compassionate lens.