Husband Material

By Drew Boa

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and m

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How many episodes does Husband Material have?

The podcast currently has 334 episodes available.

Husband Material episodes:

February 03, 2025Three Problems With Bouncing Your Eyes
What if Every Man’s Battle is wrong? In this episode, I share how I recently chose to “bounce my eyes” (as Every Man’s Battle teaches) and why I later regretted it. You’ll learn 3 reasons why bouncing your eyes is problematic—and what you can do instead when you see a sexually attractive person or picture.
Related Episodes:
When You Get An Erection...
What To Do When You See Attractive People
Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture
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Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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29min
January 27, 2025How To Guard Against Sextortion (with Chris McKenna)
What is sextortion, and how can we guard against it? Chris McKenna shares the dark reality of sextortion, why men (especially young men) are most vulnerable to being sextorted, and what we can do to prevent it.

For more information, read this article:
What Is Sextortion? A Prevention And Response Guide For Families

Chris McKenna is the founder of Protect Young Eyes. He is a leading digital safety advocate, advising legislators and emerging tech companies. His impactful 2019 testimony before the US Senate initiated a series of hearings to further online child protection policy.

Under Chris's guidance, the Protect Young Eyes team conducts presentations worldwide to parents, professionals, and schools, They gained recognition by being featured in the Childhood 2.0 movie. The Protect Young Eyes website, courses, and private parent community show caregivers how to prepare and protect their children in digital spaces.

Resources For Parents:
Start here! (Do these 3 things)
5 Habits of a Tech-Ready Home (Course)
The Table (Private Community)
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Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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32min
January 20, 2025What Your Wife Needs When You Relapse (with Tammy Gustafson)
What does your wife need when you relapse into porn, unwanted sexual behavior, and breaking her trust? Tammy Gustafson explains what is going on inside your wife when you relapse, how you can helpful rather than hurtful, and why it's wise for your wife to have a relapse safety plan.

Tammy Gustafson is the founder of the Betrayal Healing Conference. This free conference is for all women who have experienced sexual betrayal, whether you just found out about his acting out, your relationship is healing, or you are divorced and are picking up the pieces. Husband Material is partnering with Betrayal Healing to promote this amazing event! Register here.

Tammy is also a Licensed Professional Counselor, coach, EMDR certified clinician, and speaker with 15 years of experience. She is passionate about helping women find their strength and pick up the pieces of their broken hearts after sexual betrayal so that they are able to see beauty, joy, and adventure again.

Tammy and Nathaniel Gustafson co-lead a monthly webinar series called Both Sides Of The Story. Highly recommended! Check it out here.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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25min
January 16, 2025Compassion For My Face: HMA Psychodrama Example
In this live demo, Doug Carpenter guides Rick Carlson in healing childhood trauma through psychodrama. This episode is an example of Work It Out Wednesday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this weekend at joinHMA.com.

Related episodes:
Experience Healing Through Psychodrama
A Story Of Healing Through Psychodrama

Dr. Doug Carpenter is a clinical psychologist and founding board member of Husband Material Ministries. Learn more at douglascarpenter.com

Rick Carlson is a recovery pastor and Certified Husband Material Coach. Learn more at comebackcoaching.org

Drew Boa, Mike Chapman, James Gianakon, and Marcus Spaur played supporting roles in Rick's process.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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1h 8min
January 13, 2025Understanding External & Internal Family Systems To Outgrow Porn
Learn how external & internal family systems have shaped your sexuality—and what's happening inside you when you feel the pull of pornography. This episode was recorded at "HMA In A Day" as a preview of the Husband Material Academy video course.

Watch the video here.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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41min
January 09, 2025The Guy In The Locker Room: HMA Fantasy Friday Example
In this episode, Drew Boa helps Jordan Castille process a sexual fantasy about a guy in a locker room. This is a demonstration of Fantasy Friday, one of the weekly HMA Coaching Calls. Learn more and join HMA this week at joinHMA.com.

Drew Boa is the founder of Husband Material. He is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, Brainspotting Practitioner, and Certified Husband Material Coach.

Jordan Castille is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, Certified Clinical Sex Addiction Specialist, APSATS CPC (Certified Partner Coach) Candidate, and Certified Husband Material Coach. Learn more at castillecoaching.com
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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44min
January 06, 2025How To Face Your Sexual Fantasies: Arousal vs. Desire
Learn how to face your sexual fantasies and process the particularity of what sexually arouses you. This episode was recorded at "HMA In A Day" as a preview of the Husband Material Academy video course.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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43min
December 30, 2024New Stats On Porn Use Among Christians (with Nick Stumbo)
75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women watch porn on a regular basis, but only 21% wish they didn't. Nick Stumbo shares these stats and other major findings of Beyond The Porn Phenomenon, a new research report produced by Barna and Pure Desire Ministries.

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame. Learn more at puredesire.org

Order Beyond The Porn Phenomenon
Get the Church Toolkit (free bonus)
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Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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35min
December 23, 2024Make Sense Of Your Sexual Story (with Adam Young)
You have a story. Your sexuality has a story. Adam Young explains why and how to engage your sexual story: desires and disappointments, arousal, emotions, shame, abuse, and your war with hope. Adam also gives us a preview of the workshop he will lead at The Porn Free Man Conference on "Engaging God About Your Story." This episode is incredible!

Adam Young is a therapist who focuses on trauma and abuse, and the host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast. Adam is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a Master's degree in Social Work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University). Adam is the author of Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Story with Kindness Changes Everything. He currently serves as a Fellow and Instructor at The Allender Center. Adam lives in Fort Collins, CO, with his wife and two children.

Buy Adam's new book here:
Make Sense Of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything (this is a paid link)

Learn more at adamyoungcounseling.com
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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40min
December 16, 2024Recovering From Purity Culture (with Dr. Camden Morgante)
Why is purity culture harmful, and how can we heal from it? Dr. Camden Morgante explains what purity culture is, where it came from, and how to let go of toxic beliefs without letting go of your faith. Stay until the end to hear Dr. Camden's beautiful meditation on healing from sexual shame.

Dr. Camden Morgante is a licensed clinical psychologist, writer, speaker, and coach. Dr. Camden combines her personal experience growing up in purity culture with her professional experience in mind-body integration to help her clients and readers heal their faith from toxic beliefs. Learn more at DrCamden.com.

Buy Dr. Camden's book (this is a paid link):
Recovering from Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith

Related episodes:
Five Failures Of Purity Culture
Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture
What Does The Bible Say About Purity?
How To Make Sex Great (with Sheila Wray Gregoire)
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
...more
30min

FAQs about Husband Material:

How many episodes does Husband Material have?

The podcast currently has 334 episodes available.

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