We’ve all been there—that heart-sinking moment when you realize you’ve messed up at work. Kim, Jason, and Amy discuss how to recover from a big mistake without letting self-blame take over. Inspired by a Reddit post about a project that fell months behind, they share lessons from their own experiences, practical ways to take responsibility, and how to follow through with a recovery plan that actually works. You’ll learn why asking for support is a strength, not a weakness, and how managers can identify trouble early, check in effectively, and foster a culture where it’s safe to speak up before problems escalate. Whether you’ve missed a deadline, dropped the ball, or just want to be ready if things go sideways, this episode will help you rebuild trust and turn a setback into an opportunity for growth.

Get all of the show notes at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RadicalCandor.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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Transcript

Barings Bank: Its Collapse, Acquisition, and Lessons Learned | Investopedia

I Fell Behind At Work And Fucked Up: How Do I Move Forward? | Reddit

Resources For Feedback Training, Coaching & Development | Radical Candor

How Delivering Bad News Early Strengthens Your Relationships at Work | Radical Candor

Why Procrastinators Procrastinate | Wait But Why

6 Steps for Setting Measurable Goals to Avoid "Productivity Paranoia" | Radical Candor

The Bob Story, a Tale of Ruinous Empathy | Radical Candor Podcast 4 | 1

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Chapters:

(00:00:00) Introduction

Kim, Jason, and Amy introduce a Redditor’s dilemma about falling months behind on a project.

(00:02:59) When Big Mistakes Happen

Stories of mistakes and why they feel so personal.

(00:04:05) From Lost to Regained Credibility

Why credibility is already damaged—and how to earn it back.

(00:06:20) Getting Away With Mistakes

How getting away with a risky choice makes it tempting to repeat.

(00:08:32) Procrastination or Denial?

Recognizing the difference and the risk to your reputation.

(00:12:31) Acknowledging the Mistake

Why the first step to regaining credibility is admitting the error.

(00:15:34) Kim’s Story of Denial

A personal startup experience, health struggles, and hard truths.

(00:20:29) Accountability Without Punishment

Why admitting mistakes doesn’t mean beating yourself up.

(00:21:40) The Manager’s Role

How leaders can spot issues early and make bad news safe to share.

(00:26:34) Escaping the “Death March”

Breaking the cycle of repeated missed deadlines.

(00:29:45) Preventing Crisis With Goal Tracking

How visibility helps identify delays before they become disasters.

(00:33:09) A Plan to Rebuild Trust

Steps for repairing credibility with your boss and peers.

(00:36:11) Cognitive vs. Affective Trust

The two sides of workplace trust and how to restore them.

(00:38:04) Radical Candor Tips

Advice for self-forgiveness, peer support, and managing accountability.

(00:41:37) Conclusion

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