Confidence

Inside the Mind of an Avoidant


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How do avoidant's work? How can you love someone who is so resistant to connection and intimacy? Why do they attract the anxious?

In this episode I open up about feeling lost, stuck, and unworthy. I tell a story of how my inner turmoil is a pattern that has my relationship on the brink of failure and how the current results of my life have been a direct correlation to the wounds of my past.

In an attempt to heal those wounds, I open up about the darkness of my past and try to uncover, analyze and overcome the feelings of shame and guilt hidden in my childhood. Throughout I provide detailed examples of how certain experiences have made me someone who can't trust love and why I yearn so deeply from acceptance from others.

I also discuss why a rampant desire for intimacy with multiple partners could be a potential addiction that needs a deeper look.


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