Do you believe that you have the power to grow and develop your dating skills, or do you think you get what you get out of pure luck? This week, Kim has a conversation with Melanie Benson, a performance optimizer, author and business coach about how to have a growth mindset. Melanie hosts the Amplify Your Success Podcast and her success tips are featured in Bloomberg Business Week, Woman’s Day, and Parenting Magazine. There's a ton of talk out there about mindset - abundance vs. scarcity or fixed vs. growth - but how do you actually improve yours for the better? On this show, Kim and Melanie get into the details of what mindset is and how you can change yours to get what you want in life and love. If you want to meet the love of your life but you've been taking the same routes meeting people at the same parties or going to the same bars time after time, how do you push yourself to be the person that can attract what you say you want? In this conversation, Kim and Melanie talk through how you can start with one step to make big and bold changes.  Perhaps you've tried taking baby step after baby step, and have realized you're going nowhere fast. To upgrade your mindset, determine the boldest thing you could think of to switch up your patterns and break yourself out of your comfort zone. Listen in this week if you want to start reconditioning your thought patterns and say out loud what you're willing to do to move forward in your dating life! Here's a bold move for you: sign up for a FREE 30-minute breakthrough call with Kim right now: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough  And if you really want to be bold and brave, join Kim's 14-Day Flirt and Femininity Challenge starting June 6th to help you learn the key ingredients to attract men here https://bit.ly/2YM4ddD