First dates can be so much fun but we tend to make them way too intense when we start overthinking everything. You’ve got the right outfit, hair and makeup are on point, but when it comes to conversation how deep are you willing to go?

One of the biggest challenges when you start dating is secretly decoding what he meant when he said that? You start conference-calling your closest friends to play detective and decipher his messaging, but why are you not asking him what you really want to know? Why are women so scared of asking the wrong questions and scaring him off too early?

It’s clearly better for us all, emotionally, to find out A.S.A.P is he really into you, does he just want to hook up, or is he really searching for a committed relationship.

Matthew Hussey has been giving women massive truth bombs about men, dating, and how to not be broken hearted for years. His YouTube channel is clearly a fan favorite with close to 3 million subscribers and almost half a BILLION views on his content.

This bite sized nugget is worth replaying and really thinking through before your next date. If you’re already several dates in, this episode is still for you too. Matthew is very clear that you have to stop dismissing and trying to explain away when your partner is saying difficult things for you to hear.

Him: “Not looking for a serious relationship.”

You: “Well, one day he will…”

Stop getting stuck in cycles and start listening and being brave enough to ask the hard questions that really matter to you.

Matthew Hussey has been a guest here on several episodes all binge worthy, and he’s said often, “You can’t scare off the right person for you.” Ask the questions and listen to the answers!

Previous Episodes with Matthew Hussey Relationship Truth Bombs:

Finding the Right One: https://youtu.be/3xyaIh154HE

He’s Not Serious About You: https://youtu.be/pse1IbIc7vM

Avoid This Type of Guy: https://youtu.be/y-Oy9VYg4wM

When He Doesn’t Value You: https://youtu.be/qW7eC_BAqhQ

Follow Matthew Hussey:

Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/

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Make sure you check out the full interview I did with Matthew Hussey right here! - https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/G9GD5F/traffic.megaphone.fm/GRWD9931782208.mp3?updated=1673391422

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