Welcome! My guest for today’s show is a friend of mine and a fellow Positive Discipline parent educator. Kelly Pfeiffer lives in South Carolina and has raised four kids in a blended family situation. After a divorce, she remarried a man with two children, which blended their family with kids of ages 15, 15, 13, and 12. Those children are now young adults, and Kelly has been a parent educator for the last 16 years. Today’s topics include positive discipline parenting tools, focusing on our discussion of “special time,” a way to guarantee one-on-one time with each child to maintain the vital parent-child connection. Join us!
What you’ll hear in this episode:
How Kelly was introduced to Positive Discipline: “Why do parents not know this?”Why having tools and a formula doesn’t guarantee an easy parenting roadVariables in blending familiesThe Special Time tool: how to present it to parentsA magical connection between parent and childKelly’s advice for Special Time:Plan it and put it on the calendarAs much as possible, let it be child-ledIncorporate non-competitive gamesUse bike rides, picnics, and other outdoor activitiesLimit distractions (Put away your cell phone!)Use bedtime routinesTake advantage of time with a younger child when an older one has an activityTake advantage of time with an older child when a younger one needs to napHave an older child help with dinner preparationHow connection helps diffuse power strugglesTools to repair and recover from hurtsWhy parents need to say “I’m sorry”Don’t give up when a teen is resistantIdeas for saving Special Time moneyWhat does Joyful Courage mean to you? “Being courageous, feeling the fear, and doing it anyway---with JOY!”Resources:
www.thinkitthroughparenting.com
Find Kelly on Facebook and Twitter (@posdisparenting)
Become a Positive Discipline Parent Educator at Kelly’s 2-day workshop in Greenville, SC, in October
Email newsletter: Find out more and sign up for these parenting tools on Kelly’s website!
Positive Discipline by Jane Nelson, Ed.D.
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