What happens when your world falls apart—and you’re left standing in the wreckage, asking, “Who am I now?” 

In this moving Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the wise and radiant Devi Brown to talk about grief, trauma, surrender, and the surprising strength we find in our most broken moments. Devi shares how a series of devastating events—including the death of a dear friend, the end of her marriage, and the unraveling of long-held identities—sent her into a deep spiritual reckoning during the pandemic. Yet what emerged was a new, more rooted version of herself, one anchored in faith, self-worth, and radical presence.

Devi opens up about how she learned to stop resisting pain and instead, soften into it—finding not only healing, but beauty and transformation. We talk about faith (even when you're not sure what you believe), the difference between self-worth and self-esteem, and why it's okay (and necessary!) to fall apart.

She also shares tools from her new book Living in Wisdom, including daily practices to reconnect with your body, spirit, and sense of purpose, even in the depths of sorrow.

Here’s what we explore:

You can connect with Devi on her website or LinkedIn, and don’t forget to grab a copy of her book Living in Wisdom for even more insights and inspiration.

If this episode resonated with you, I’d love for you to visit my website and explore the Good Grief course—it might be just what you need right now. 

And if you’re looking for a supportive and healing community of grieving souls, join us at the Grief Healing Collective platform. We’re in this together.

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How do you move forward when trust shatters in an instant? When the person who vowed to stand by you crosses a line that feels impossible to uncross?

Here we are with another Language of Love session as I connect with Chelsea, a listener navigating the aftermath of her husband's infidelity.

Chelsea's husband confessed to drunkenly making out with another woman at a bachelor party a year ago. Since then, he's been attending therapy, practicing radical transparency, and working to rebuild trust. Yet Chelsea still struggles with obsessive thoughts: Will I ever truly move past this?

In this session, we deep dive into:

If Chelsea's story resonates with you - if you're navigating the painful aftermath of betrayal or struggling to rebuild trust - we want to hear from you. Your experience could help others feel less alone. 

Email me at [email protected] to share your story for a future episode where I give you my advice. For additional support, visit my website where you'll find expert-approved resources to help heal and strengthen your relationships. And make sure to check out my newest book, Sex Magic: Take Your Body, Mind and Relationship to the Next Level with Spectacular Intimacy 

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Are you loving your partner the way they need to be loved? In this Language of Love Bite, we tackle the subtle mistakes that might be undermining your efforts to love your partner well. Whether it's distracted quality time or misunderstood acts of service, these miscommunications can leave both partners feeling frustrated and disconnected. But here's the good news: with a few simple adjustments, you can start loving your partner in ways that truly land.

If you're new to love languages, make sure to check out our previous episode where we break down all five languages in detail. And stick around until the end of this episode, where I share one powerful question that can transform how you show up for your partner.

Here’s what we dive into:

Remember to check out my free Love Languages Quiz to discover your primary love language and start improving your relationship today. Remember, love isn't just about what you give - it's about how it's received. And make sure to check out my newest book Sex Magic: Take Your Body, Mind and Relationship to the Next Level with Spectacular Intimacy. 

Got a love language success story or struggle? Email us at [email protected] - we might feature your story in a future episode. And don't forget to share this with someone who's trying to love their partner better, because we all deserve to feel loved in ways that truly resonate.

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Your loved ones, even after passing, are still with you, guiding you, and sending signs of their presence. In this Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Maureen Hancock, a renowned medium, holistic healer, and comedian. For decades, Maureen has been helping people heal from grief by bridging the gap between this world and the next.

After surviving lead paint poisoning, a near-death experience, and a serious car accident, Maureen discovered her unique gift to communicate with the spirit world. But Maureen’s work goes beyond delivering messages from the other side—she helps people reframe their grief, teaching them that love never dies and their loved ones are always near.

In this episode, we explore:

If this conversation opened your heart or got you thinking, why not dive deeper? Check out Maureen’s upcoming events and courses on her website, or join her for a live Zoom session to experience her incredible healing energy in real time. You can also follow her on Facebook or explore Helping Parents Heal for even more support.

Got a question or a story about connecting with a loved one in spirit? We’d love to hear it! Send us an email at [email protected], and be sure to visit my website for tools like the Good Grief Course to help you stay connected with those you love.

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Can love truly heal the wounds of the past? It’s a question many of us ask ourselves when past traumas creep into our relationships, casting long shadows over the love we’re trying to build. For Brian and Stacey, one of the amazing couples who come on the show to get support, this question isn’t just philosophical—it’s a daily reality. How do you rebuild trust when intimacy feels like a minefield? How do you show affection when touch triggers painful memories? And can love, no matter how strong, truly heal the wounds of the past?

In this Language of Love Session, we dive deeper into the emotional rollercoaster of Brian and Stacey’s relationship. Will they find a way to bridge the growing distance between them, or will past traumas continue to pull them apart? If you’ve been following their journey, you know this is a story filled with raw emotion, vulnerability, and the struggle to heal. If you’re new, buckle up—this is a journey you won’t want to miss. And if you would like to come on the show to get some support, make sure to email us at [email protected]

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

Check out my free quiz and 7 Days to Better Sex to start improving intimacy today. Healing and connection are journeys best taken with the right tools. For trauma recovery, tools like EMDR and the Drama Triangle can be incredibly helpful. 

Got questions or stories to share? Email me at [email protected]—and don’t forget to share this episode, because love is a journey we take together.

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Are you unknowingly sabotaging your relationship? Are you caught in a cycle of recurring arguments, wondering why the spark that once brought you together feels like it’s slipping away? The truth is we often blame our partner for the growing distance between us, convinced they’re the one creating tension—when in reality, it might be the subtle, unnoticed mistakes we’re both making. 

In this Language of Love Bite, I dive deep into the five common mistakes that could be quietly eroding the connection between you and your partner. I also reveal simple, actionable tips to turn things around and reignite that spark. Plus, stick around until the end for a transformational question you can ask your partner tonight that could change everything. Ready to uncover what’s been holding you back? Let’s get started!

Also, don’t miss out on the 7 Days to Better Sex program and the Free quiz, What Do You Want Out of Love? — both designed to guide you on your journey to deeper connection and fulfillment.

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Did you know menopause comes with 34 symptoms—yet most women are never told what to expect? Instead, they’re left guessing, struggling, and wondering if it’s all just in their heads.

In this episode of The Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Tamsen Fadal, Emmy Award-winning journalist and menopause advocate, to get real about what’s happening to our bodies and why so many women feel unprepared. Her new book, How to Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life, and Feel Even Better Than Before, is changing the conversation—because menopause isn’t the end. It’s a new beginning.

Tamsen shares her personal journey through menopause, from the initial confusion and misdiagnosis to becoming a leading voice in the menopause movement. She discusses the societal stigma surrounding menopause, the flawed research that silenced a generation of women, and how she’s working to change the narrative.

If you or someone you love is going through menopause,  or you’ve ever felt dismissed, confused, or alone in your menopause journey, this episode is for you. Tamsen’s story is one of resilience, advocacy, and hope, and her message is clear: you can feel better than ever before.

We dive into:

If you're ready to take control of menopause, pre-order Tamsen Fadal’s book, How to Menopause: Take Charge of Your Health, Reclaim Your Life, and Feel Even Better Than Before today.

For deeper insights, watch The M Factor, her must-see documentary on menopause. Join the conversation—follow Tamsen on Linkedin, visit her website and connect with a community breaking the silence on menopause.

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The "work spouse" dilemma – why is this modern trend causing so much tension in relationships? You’ve likely heard the term before… It's that coworker who knows your partner’s schedule better than you do, the one who grabs a meal with your partner before a big meeting, or the person your partner vents to when work gets overwhelming. 

In this episode of Language of Love Session , I dive into a listener’s question about this emotionally charged topic: the concept of a "work wife" or "work husband." Heather, one of our listeners, shares her discomfort with her husband calling a female coworker his "work wife," even though their relationship appears purely professional. Heather finds herself torn between feeling overly sensitive and wanting to protect the trust and boundaries in her marriage.

Here’s what we’ll dive into:

Also, don't miss out on the 7 Days to Better Sex program and my free quiz, What Do You Want Out of Love? — both designed to guide you on your journey to deeper connection and fulfillment. Happy exploring!

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How many times have we overlooked the little moments that make our relationship special? The gentle touches, the inside jokes, the quiet ways our partner shows they care. It’s so easy to focus on what’s missing that we forget to appreciate what’s already there. But here’s the secret: gratitude isn’t just a feel-good idea—it’s a powerful force that can reignite passion, deepen your connection, and completely transform your love life.

In this Language of Love Bite, I pull back the curtain on how gratitude works like a love potion for your relationship. I show you how a simple “thank you” releases oxytocin—the bonding hormone—and creates a ripple effect of connection, intimacy, and yes, even better sex. Plus, I share a game-changing daily practice and a heartfelt exercise that leaves your partner feeling seen, cherished, and deeply loved.

We uncover:

And if you’re ready to take your love life to the next level, I’ve got something special for you. Head over to my website and check out my free course on Quantum Sex. You’ll learn how to unlock full-body orgasms, use sex magic to manifest your dreams, and connect with your partner on a deeper, more intimate level.

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Is your hesitation—your fear of being fully seen—actually keeping you from the deep, lasting connection you crave?

In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Lindsay Jill Roth, award-winning producer and author of Romances and Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) in 250 Questions. 

Lindsay isn’t afraid to tackle the tough stuff. We dive deep into the role of religion in relationships, the stigma around dating divorced people, and why so many of us shut down love before it even has a chance to grow.

She also takes on a challenge so many career-driven women face—hitting their 40s, finally ready to settle down, only to realize that most of the men they’re meeting are already dads. How do you navigate that? How do you avoid getting stuck in this situation in the first place? And most importantly—how do you move forward without settling for something that isn’t right for you?

We’re diving into:

Want more from Lindsay? Connect with her on Instagram and check out her book Romances and Practicalities: A Love Story (Maybe Yours) in 250 Questions for even deeper insights. 

Remember to check out my Quantum Sex Course for next-level intimacy and connection. And as always, let’s keep having these conversations about love, sex, and relationships—because even though it’s still a taboo topic, it’s one we need to be talking about. 

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