February 04, 2025

Learning Healthy Sexuality as Couples and Families Affected by Porn & Sexual Addiction w/ Chelom Leavitt

53 minutes

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In this episode, host Tara McCausland and Dr. Chelom Leavitt discuss the importance of learning about and developing healthy sexuality and how that is impacted by pornography and sexual betrayal. Key points include the necessity of establishing safety in relationships before healthy sexuality can be addressed, self-compassion, understanding sexual perceptions and expectations, overcoming the negative influences of pornography and the importance of open communication. The conversation also delves into how couples can work on their own healing in this area to positively impact their children's development of healthy sexuality. Strategies for fostering a family environment of open and frequent communication, honesty, and warmth around difficult topics are highlighted. The episode also touches on overcoming body image issues personally and in coupleship and talking about personal changes associated with problematic sexual behavior with children.

Connect with Chelom at chelomleavitt.com

00:00 Introduction and Upcoming Event
01:26 Guest Introduction: Dr. Chelom Leavitt
02:11 Understanding Healthy Sexuality
06:05 Impact of Pornography on Sexual Expectations
08:54 Developing Healthy Sexuality in Relationships
10:02 Challenges and Misconceptions in Sexual Education
11:34 Emotional and Physical Intimacy
18:05 Addressing Unhealthy Sexual Patterns
24:37 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Sexuality in Relationships
26:54 Identifying Relationship Wedges
27:29 Challenges of Lower Desire Partners
28:39 Emotional Connection and Communication
29:55 Body Image and Insecurities
31:26 Healthy Sexuality and Self-Acceptance
35:21 Talking to Kids About Healthy Sexuality
37:28 Creating an Open Family Dialogue
44:31 Overcoming Shame and Silence
49:58 Final Thoughts and Recommendations