Let's Grow Through it

In this episode I dive into the challenging topic of dealing with "the other woman" Most of the questions discuss ways to cope with the affair partner being a part of your life and your kid's life. I share my personal experiences of how I worked through the news of my ex having a baby with his affair partner, and him introducing our child to her. I also touch on introducing a new partner to your children / co-parent, and how to find happiness when your ex has moved on, but you haven't.

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This is the first episode in a 3 Part series where I give my advice to listeners that asked me questions over on an Instagram post. In this episode I share stories from my legal battle with divorce, how I co-parent with a man that cheated on me, ways to make extra money as a single mom, break-ups, moving on, and so much more.

Q&A pt.2 will cover dealing with the other woman being a part of you & your child's life

Q&A pt.3 will cover more questions but focus mostly on motherhood and self healing.

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What if you could look at the person who betrayed you and feel indifference or even love? What if you no longer felt bitterness, anger and resentment when you thought about your enemies or the villains in your life? In this episode I share a parable that might offer you a perspective shift on those who have wronged you and give you a way to take your power back and remind your soul about the light its meant to be.

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Welcome to season 3! This season I (Kristin) am solo! I decided to start the season off talking about my Man Sober 2024 and all the ways it impacted my life. I touch on the topics of celibacy, 4b movement, man sober and decentering men. Hopefully this will inspire you to go man sober for a little bit in 2025 to experience all the benefits.

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In this episode, Kristin is joined by a guest that wishes to remain anonymous. This guest shares her roller coaster journey through a challenging marriage and divorce. She reflects on the early signs of trouble, including infidelity and emotional abuse, and discusses the complexities of co-parenting with a partner who struggles with substance abuse. We discuss the impact gaslighting has on our perception of reality and the challenges faced within the legal system during divorce. Ultimately, she emphasizes the importance of personal growth and the lessons learned through her experiences and offers insights for others in similar situations. 

Thank you for another amazing season! Season 3 will start at the beginning of 2025 and will officially just be Kristin as the host. Keep growing and I will talk to you next year!

In this episode Kristin is joined by Erica who shares her journey though a high conflict separation and divorce from the man she was married to for 20+ years. 

We touch on: Peter pan syndrome, Multiple affairs, how politics can change people, high conflict divorce, the impact of the extend family, and navigating the legal system with older children. 

Erica shares the adversity she endured and how she found support and healing through the challenges which empowered her to grow though it! 

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In this episode Kristin Shares the 9 steps that she took to heal a deep betrayal wound after getting cheated on and going through a divorce. She shares examples of each step and what she did on her healing journey.

While the examples pertain to healing from betrayal in a romantic relationship these steps can be taken to heal from any type of betrayal, just change the details to what you need to do in whatever type of betrayal you are currently feeling. 

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In this week’s episode Kristin is joined by Emily a “Let’s Grow Through it” listener and this week’s special guest. After 17 years of marriage Emily discovered a betrayal in her marriage. Instead of being a victim of her circumstances she took the pain from that experience and turn it into a beautiful healing journey. 

In this episode she shares the story of discovering the betrayal, the heaviness of trying to save her marriage and then ultimately making the brave choice to take the healthier path, choose herself and start a healing journey. She shares different healing modalities and tools and how faith can play into the healing process of heartbreak, betrayal and divorce. 

Emily’s story is such an inspiring one and I am so grateful that she was willing to share it here to help others on their healing journey.

Welcome to the first guest episode! This week Susie joins us to talk about going through an unhealthy relationship that ended in betrayal, how to help yourself on the journey to heal from relationship trauma, and what dating has been like after going through that. Susie is an old friend of Kristin's and later in the episode we talk about how to keep yourself safe when dating by setting boundaries and raising your standards, journal prompts you can do to get very clear on what you are looking for in a partner, and the struggles of modern dating.

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This season we want to connect with you on a deeper level and build a community that provides love and support growing through life and so we have started a Patreon! There are 4 different tiers - ranging from a virtual hug (if you want to support our mission but don't need the extra support from us) all the way to one-on-one chats. Plus a tier that gives you access to the Patreon ONLY monthly Podcast episode.

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In this episode Kristin share some annoying advice that is actually great advice to help pull you out of a funk. She goes over 15 small actions to take that will start a snowball effect and guide you towards feeling better. 

WE WANT YOU TO JOIN OUR PATREON COMMUNITY!

This season we want to connect with you on a deeper level and build a community that provides love and support growing through life and so we have started a Patreon! There are 4 different tiers - ranging from a virtual hug (if you want to support our mission but don't need the extra support from us) all the way to one-on-one chats. Plus a tier that gives you access to the Patreon ONLY monthly Podcast episode.

Check it out by going to the link below and as always, thank you so much for your support!

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