Literally, Not OK with Alexis Waters

Literally, Not OK with Alexis Waters

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Literally, Not OK with Alexis Waters episodes

  • RE-RELEASE #37 DALLAS HOTSPOTS, WHY MEN NEED THERAPY & DATING DISASTER STORIES WITH COURTNEY STENSLAND

    You guys… this episode is a full-on Dallas DICTIONARY. I sat down with the queen of recs herself — Courtney Stensland aka @StensInTheCity — and we covered literally everything you need to know about where to eat, drink, date, and accidentally run into your ex in this city.


    We’re talking:

    🍔 The best burger in Dallas

    🍸 Where to happy hour without hating yourself

    🌮 Hidden gems for date night (or girls' night)

    🥂 Spots that are worth the hype — and ones that aren’t

    💅 Aesthetic places to get drunk and take a selfie

    ❤️‍🔥 How to spot a red flag based on his restaurant choice


    Also, yes — Sprouts is now a dating app, I’m still trauma dumping at Smoothie King, and I may or may not have signed up for a salmon sperm facial (again).


    FOLLOW COURTNEY:

    📍 @StensInTheCity on IG + TikTok for all things Dallas food, events, and influencer tea.


    FOLLOW ME:

    📍 @AlexisWaters_ on all the things

    💌 Leave a comment & tell me: Why are YOU literally not okay this week?


    📢 Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE & SHARE with your group chat girlies. Let’s make smarter decisions — or at least hotter dinner reservations.

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    50 min
  • #49 BUSH THONGS, HOLIDAY CONFESSIONS & BEING THE BACHELORETTE WITH RACHEL LINDSAY

    SANTA HASN’T TOUCHED MY SNOW GLOBES IN 84 YEARS 😩🎅

    IT’S A HOLIDAY MIRACLE! Rachel Lindsay—attorney, former Bachelorette, and my ride-or-die since Day 2 (not Day 1, RUDE)—joins me on this chaotic, shroom-fueled, ADHD-suspecting, bush-celebrating Christmas episode. We talk Cowboys heartbreak, BravoCon secrets, our iconic Bachelor beginnings (yes, I was the dolphin), and why tamales might just ruin Christmas. Oh, and we played a lil’ holiday confession game that honestly turned into a therapy session.


    If you're literally not okay this season, SAME.

    Grab some wine, take a breath, and press play, baby 🎧


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    🎙️ @therachlindsay

    🎧 Higher Learning + Morally Corrupt Podcasts


    👇 COMMENT BELOW:

    Why are YOU literally not okay this holiday?

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    45 min
  • #48 RED FLAGS, CUBIZIA & NAVIGATING THE CHAOS OF YOUR 20s WITH ASHLYNN NEUMAYER

    Okay, so this week on Literally, Not OK, I’m joined by my twin flame, TikTok queen, and Cubiza founder herself—Ashlynn Neumayer . We’re talking all about how she went from corporate cubicle tears to FULL-TIME CONTENT BADDIE (hello, viral DJ sets in the office??), her tragic love life (relatable), and why Dallas dating is literally a horror movie.


    Ashlynn is funny, real AF, and we both overshare like it’s our job (well... it kinda is). This is the episode for anyone who’s literally not okay and just trying to romanticize their life through seasonal depression, TikTok trends, and apple-flavored Olipops.


    📲 Follow Ashlyn: @ashneufit on TikTok

    + Instagram


    🎧 Playlists: Apple Music + SoundCloud + Spotify → Search "Ashneufit"

    💖 Follow the podcast: @literallynotokpod on IG

    😂 Hosted by @alexiswaters_


    💬 Drop a comment and tell us: Why are YOU literally not okay this week?

    👯‍♀️ Subscribe, like, share with your emotionally unstable bestie.

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    46 min
  • #47 GETTING GHOSTED, BEING SOBER & THE DATING CULTURE IN DALLAS WITH ELSEBEATS

    OMG HELLO MY LOVES!!! 💕 You are NOT ready for this episode of Literally Not Okay because I sat down with the queen of the streets herself — the ICONIC dating journalist taking over Dallas… ELSBEATS!


    We talk all things dating, ghosting, shirtless men on the Katy Trail, espresso cups of ENERGY, and the actual tea behind why dating in Dallas is LITERALLY NOT OKAY 😵‍💫 Plus I spiral about my closet, my malfunctioning brain, and how my husband is nitpicking me to death — love you, Tyler 😘


    We also get into red flags, green flags, pen pals on Hinge, and how hot men are scared too. Y’all need to hear this one. It’s a whole dang therapy session with a side of Matcha (jk they were dirty!!)


    💌 SUBSCRIBE, COMMENT why YOU’RE literally not okay, and don’t forget to FOLLOW us:

    📲 @alexiswaters_

    📲 @literallynotokaypod

    📲 Follow ElsBeats: @_elsbeats_


    ✨ New episodes every week — RATE & REVIEW if you love us (or even if you don’t, I can handle it...barely). BYEEEE 💋

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    33 min
  • #46 BETRAYAL LISTS, REVERSE SNOBBERY & KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE FUN WITH COURTNEY NOONAN

    HELLO MY LOVES!!! This week’s episode of Literally Not Okay is UNHINGED in the BEST way. I’m joined by fashion queen, reality TV icon, and influencer OG Courtney Noonan (yes, Kerr, but we’re manifesting the name change lol). From Barbie vaginas and clogging toilets to coffee & titties saving marriages – NOTHING is off-limits and honestly, I’ve never related more. 🤝


    We deep dive into:

    Marriage name-change trauma

    Reverse snobbery (STOP asking “where are you headed?”)

    Leaf blowers, floaters, and betrayal lists

    Being the loyalist hoe for your friends 💅

    Influencer hot takes + fashion icks

    Why men’s toes should NEVER see an airport


    Grab your espresso martini, maybe vape (don’t), and come hang out with us for the funniest hour of your week.


    🎧 LISTEN NOW. RATE. REVIEW. SUBSCRIBE.

    💌 Follow @alexiswaters_ and @literallynotokpod on IG

    📲 Courtney: @currently (that’s KERRently, babes)

    🛍️ Shop my hoops: www.hoopnationbyalexis.com


    🎤 TikTok fam, sound off in the comments: why are you LITERALLY NOT OK this week?

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    56 min
  • #45 BUSH THONGS, FRIENDSHIP BREAKUPS & HOW TO BE CONFIDENT WITH CASHAY PROUDFOOT

    On this week’s episode of Literally Not Okay, the radiant, hilarious, and horny QUEEN herself Cashay Proudfoot is back — and we dive deep into the chaos.


    Plus — we unpack the pressure to be hot and happy online, Cashay’s healing era, and how her grandma’s passing led to a MAJOR mindset shift.


    It’s unfiltered. It’s hilarious. It’s therapy. It’s chaos. It’s what you need.


    Subscribe, rate, and drop a review if you also haven’t had sex in a while and are one DM away from doing something reckless. 😅


    📱FOLLOW US:

    IG: @literallynotokaypod

    TikTok: @literallynotokay

    Host: @alexiswaters_

    Guest: @cashayproudfoot

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    35 min
  • #44 WHY PARENTS NEVER CHANGE AND MEN CAN’T BE SICK WITH ROSEBUD BAKER

    This week on Literally Not Okay, I’m joined by the one and only Rosebud Baker — actress, comedian, writer, and my brain twin 🧠💥 We talk everything from Netflix specials and wiener costumes (yes, really) to our mutual realization that our parents are never changing. EVER.


    We’re waking up at the crack of dawn (read: 11:30AM) to get real about marriage, motherhood, why men are allergic to being sick, and why being alone might actually be... hot?


    Buckle up bitches — it’s chaos, it’s healing, it’s hilarious... and it's literally not okay.


    🎤 Follow Rosebud on IG & TikTok: @rosebudbaker

    🎟️ Tour dates & more: rosebudbaker.com

    📺 Watch her special The Trick Is The Trick now on Netflix!


    💋 Follow me on IG + TikTok: @alexiswaters_

    🛍️ Shop @hoopearrings

    🎙️ New episodes every week — don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and tell me in the comments why you’re literally not okay this week 🫠

    #LiterallyNotOkayPod

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    26 min
  • #43 CRYING ON THE INTERNET, FRIENDSHIP BREAKUPS & BEING TOO MUCH WITH EMMA PAIGE

    This week on Literally, Not Okay, I’m joined by the baddest bitch herself, Emma Paige — host of the Too Much podcast — and we are in rare form.


    Emma spills it ALL, including the insane backstory behind her former podcast, her literal legal drama, being erased from the internet, and how she came back hotter and more powerful than ever. We also talk boob jobs, the New York City vortex, girl math with martinis, real estate depression, dating with boundaries, and the art of not giving a single F.


    It’s giving unbothered, it’s giving eloquent, it’s giving… justice. You're gonna love this one.


    Make sure to follow Emma at @emmastoomuch on all the things and stream Too Much wherever you get your podcasts!


    Follow me @alexiswaters_ on Instagram & TikTok

    New episodes every week!


    Don’t forget to rate & review — and tell me why YOU’RE literally not okay in the comments 💖

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    31 min
  • #42 FAMILY VALUES, BAD HOOKUPS & HOW TO BE A DADDY WITH NIKO EMANUILIDIS

    He was obsessed with you... texting every day, planning your wedding in week two — and now he’s gone?? 🤬


    This week on Literally, Not Okay, I sit down with The Daddy Academy himself, Niko Emanuilidis, to figure out why guys love bomb and then ghost, what it actually means when they say "I'm just not a big texter," and how to stop spiraling over mixed signals. 🙃


    We talk:

    💥 Love bombing vs genuine connection

    🚩 Red flags on first dates

    👻 Post-nut clarity (yep, we went there)

    🧠 Why emotionally intelligent men are rare AF

    💋 The importance of a good first kiss (sorry, Nick Viall)

    & why your dating life is literally... not okay.


    Let’s unpack the chaos together.


    🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts

    📱 Follow Alexis: @alexiswaters_

    💬 Follow Niko: @nikoeman + @thedaddyacademy

    🎟️ Grab tickets to Niko’s live show: Nov. 7 @ City Winery NYC

    🩷 COMMENT: Why are you literally not okay this week?

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    56 min
  • #41 THE GREAT LOCK IN, THREESOMES & AMERICAS NEXT TOP MODEL WITH SARAH HARTSHORNE

    OMG you guys… I am LITERALLY not OK because I just sat down with comedian, writer, and former America’s Next Top Model contestant Sarah Hartshorne and it was chaotic, healing, hilarious, and deeply unwell in the best way. We’re talking everything from ANTM secrets and quarantine TikToks to her NEW BOOK You Wanna Be On Top?, bisexual awakenings, and why weed (in edible form) is actually self-care.


    Sarah gets real about the exploitation behind reality TV, being trapped in a hotel post-elimination, the “Karen haircut” they gave her, and how a threesome basically changed her whole identity. I cried. I laughed. I spiraled. You're gonna LOVE her.


    📕 Get her book: youwannabeontop.com


    📲 Follow her: @sarahhartshorne on all socials

    🎧 New podcast What’s Your Type? coming January 👀


    Follow us:

    💖 IG: @alexiswaters_

    💖 TikTok: @alexis.waters

    💖 YouTube: Literally, Not OK


    Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us in the comments:

    Why are YOU literally not OK this week? 🫠

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    54 min

About Literally, Not OK with Alexis Waters

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A lot of you may know her from The Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise, and now she is on a mission to navigate this thing called life while spreading joy and getting weird. Each week Alexis is joined…

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