Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the conversation flowing and flirty. Plus: how to go for the first kiss!

Quotes

"I take pride in being a great listener, allowing others to express themselves fully."-Tom

"I value girls sharing their thoughts, it helps me listen & understand." - Tom

"A genuine connection can be established by steering the conversation back on track, and women will genuinely appreciate your effort in doing so." - Connell Barrett

Featured in the episode

Tom(Guest)

Connell Barrett(Host)
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
Website: https://datingtransformation.com
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation

Chapters
00:27 Introduction
07:22 Navigating Fatigue and Enhancing Engagement on Dates
12:12 Conversational Tips: Avoiding Awkward Silences
22:15 Authenticity and Sincerity: Keeping the Conversation Real
24:45 Emotional Vulnerability: Overcoming the Fear of Opening Up
29:21 Taking Chances and Embracing Vulnerability
34:55 Charming Responses: Deflecting Personal Relationship Questions
43:44 Keeping the Date Focused on Each Other
49:27 From Lighthearted to Genuine: Building Deeper Connections
58:05 Geeky Banter and Smooth Date Requests: A Bumble Success Story
58:05 Building Emotional Connection: Before Asking for a Date
01:06:18 Outro