Most men don’t fail because they lack ability.
They fail because they hold onto habits, mindsets, and behaviors that quietly keep them small.

These are 5 things I’m leaving behind to grow more in 2026:

1. Distracted living
If my attention is everywhere, my progress is nowhere. I’m choosing focus over noise.

2. Overthinking and indecision
Clarity comes from action, not thinking harder. I’m deciding faster and adjusting along the way.

3. People pleasing
Approval is expensive. I’m choosing self respect over validation.

4. Waiting to feel ready
Readiness isn't a feeling.. it's a decision. I’m moving BEFORE I feel confident.

5. Playing small
No more shrinking goals to match comfort. I’m raising my standards and stepping into my potential.

If you want more growth in 2026, start by letting go of what’s holding you back ⚡️

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Most men aren’t broken.
They’re soft.

And the world is perfectly designed to keep them that way 🌎  

I know because I’ve lived it.
I’m a recovering softie myself. I haven’t arrived, but I’ve seen the patterns clearly.. in my own life and in the men I coach.

This episode is about waking up 🌞  

What keeps men soft:
• Comfort and distraction
• Late nights, scrolling, porn
• Blaming, complaining, defending

What keeps men hard:
• Discipline and routine
• Keeping promises to yourself
• Ownership of your life

By hard, I mean effective, awake, strong, healthy, focused, and dangerous for good.
Not reckless. Not angry. Grounded. Capable. Full of Love and Strength.

This is a call to wake up.
To stop drifting.
To become the man your future needs.