Making Biblical Family Life Practical

By Hal Young and Melanie YoungReligion & Spirituality Christianity Education Parenting Kids & Family

Making Biblical Family Life Practical episodes

July 01, 2020 Beating Boredom This Summer – MBFLP 249
Summertime is always a challenge – with the change of routine, it’s easy for our kids (or ourselves) to feel adrift. This year, with the ongoing COVID-19 crisis, even our backup program may be on hold or cancelled. What can you do to make the most of summertime with your family, when vacation may be postponed, summer camp or youth sports shut down, and even the local pool or gym is off limits? This episode, we talk about things you might consider with your kids and mate, to make the most of the enforced time together this year!
Who knew, when the schools and universities closed in March, that we’d still be home in June and July, with summer vacation upended as well? Camps and programs for missions, music, sports, and more, have been closed by the virus. Travel is still restricted. Entertainment facilities, beaches, parks, and more are shut down or curtailed. Our own son had his honeymoon reservations canceled by the hotel the week of the wedding! (Thankfully, he was able to make other arrangements!)
So many of the things we take for granted and do every summer are in jeopardy – or already gone. Last week, we spoke with a radio host about ideas for “engaging our kids” during this time. There are ways to build memories and build skills – and there are also opportunities to build (or rebuild) relationships, if we’ll take the step.
A New Feature for the Program
Hal was inspired by World Radio’s program “The World and Everything In It” and their listener participation in the daily news podcast. This episode, we’re pleased to announce a new opportunity on our own program – our new “Listener Response Line” at (919) 295-0321. This is our voice mail where you can leave a comment, a question, or a suggestion. We’d love to hear from you!
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May 21, 2020 Raising Them Up – a conversation with Israel Wayne – MBFLP 248
This episode, we’re talking with Israel Wayne, homeschool graduate, father of ten, and author of the new book Raising Them Up: Parenting for Christians. He shares some of the difficulties of his childhood – parents who divorced early, an abusive stepfather, times of poverty and homelessness – and the incredible way that God has redeemed that experience for His glory and the help of His people! You’ll enjoy this surprising and encouraging conversation with Family Renewal’s Israel Wayne.
Starting Over After a Rough Start
“When I got married, I was twenty-three, my wife was twenty, and we started our marriage with a clean slate,” Israel said. “I didn’t bring the baggage with me. I had the opportunity to start out on the right foot, developing the kind of relationship with my wife that my parents never had, learning how to be the father that my father wasn’t able to be. We now have ten children – our oldest is 20, our youngest is 16 months – five boys and five girls. And I think it’s really interesting, fascinating, and ironic in a way, that God has given us this ministry called “Family Renewal.
“This may be surprising to some people because some don’t know much about my back story. But I really believe in the capacity of God to reach families that are broken and families that don’t feel like there’s hope for them, that feel like, “Well, yeah, we’re not that poster family for homeschooling or ‘a Christian family.’ I believe that God’s grace is big enough that God can reach even you, and I believe my background leads me to have faith for those families. It’s part of why I do what I do and why I wrote Raising Them Up: Parenting for Christians.”
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Raising Them Up: Parenting for Christians is available direct from Family Renewal Ministries
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While We’re On The Subject
During this time of widespread shutdown and isolation, a lot of authors, teachers, and publishers are struggling. Dozens of homeschool conventions have been cancelled, including some of the largest in the United States and Canada, and that has made a serious dent in the support your favorite homeschool vendors need to keep going.
When you’re ordering online – and who isn’t, now? – would you take a minute and consider ordering direct from the authors and publishers? You might not know that when you save a dollar on a book at the (ahem) online megastore, 75% of the income from that book goes to the website owner – not the author. In normal times that’s just business reality – but while the crisis lasts, remember the creators who are pouring their heart and knowledge into your family and homeschool, and let’s channel those purchases back to the homeschool vendors you depend on!
GREAT NEWS!

Our book
NO LONGER LITTLE: Parenting Tweens with Grace and Hope
has received the
2020 CHRISTIAN INDIE AWARD
for the Relationships and Family category
“The Christian Indie Awards honor Christian books by independent authors and small publishers for outstanding contribution to Christian life.”

Awarded by the Christian Indie Publishing Association (formerly the Christian Small Publishers Association)
CLICK HERE to find out more, or order your copy! Available in print, audio CD, and downloadable formats

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32 min
May 06, 2020 Quarantine School – It gets better from here! – MBFLP 247

Schools are still out and so’s the jury – could this be a glimpse of your future? To be honest, few people could have dreamed that millions of kids would start learning from home this spring, and nobody consulted the parents whether they felt like giving homeschooling a whirl. The good news is, if you pivot to intentional homeschooling for the fall, you may find it’s much less stress and a lot more interesting. This episode, we’re talking about some of the differences between emergency-level school-at-home and the more routine experience of parent-led home education.
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April 23, 2020 Planning for College Even During COVID-19 – MBFLP 246
How can you hunt for a college in the midst of a global pandemic? Colleges want students who demonstrate interest in their college. But how can you demonstrate interest in a college when you are sheltering in place under a “stay at home” order? Join us for this special conversation with Lee Binz, “The HomeScholar”!
With our older kids (all five of them so far!), we spent a lot of time visiting colleges, touring campuses, interviewing professors and campus ministers … but emphasize, on campus.
And now, there are very few people on campus to visit – if the campus is even open, still.
Needless to say, suddenly the rules have changed! But have they?
Colleges still want to meet you, get to know you, and make an estimate whether you’d accept an offer from their school. In normal times, you take the opportunity to meet the admissions staff, walk around campus, and if they invite, absolutely positively show up for scholarship or honors college events!
So during this time of quarantine, shelter-in-place, and stay-home orders, those in-person visits just aren’t going to happen.
Lee Binz has years of experience counseling and advising homeschooled high schoolers and their parents, on how to prepare for the college application process and how to maximize your chances of success. This episode, we talked with her about how the move to remote meetings and online gatherings has changed the traditional interview process. You’ll hear some surprising advice and some brilliant ideas how you can adapt to this strange, disrupted world, in some of the most traditional institutions.
About Our Guest
Lee Binz, The HomeScholar is a dynamic speaker and author of over 40 books on homeschooling high school, available on Amazon. She is an expert on homeschool transcripts and getting scholarships. Lee’s mission is to encourage and equip parents to homeschool through high school. Her free monthly homeschool e-newsletter is a great help, and she has marvelous homeschool freebies on her website HomeHighSchoolHelp.com. You can also find Lee on Facebook at Facebook.com/TheHomeScholar.
A Free Offer from Lee Binz!
Anxiety and feelings of insecurity can come and go. When you are faced with feelings of inadequacy, you may start wondering how to become a better homeschool parent. How do you become successful? Lee has a free ebook that she would like to share with you! Download How to Be a Better Home Educator and you can build a better homeschool with tools (and teens) you have around the house. Whether you are a newbie or veteran, this short ebook can help you become a better homeschool parent.
Other Resources We Mentioned
Lee Binz: Coronavirus and College Admission
Lee Binz: High School Tests During Coronavirus
Lee Binz: How to Prepare for a College Interview (with practice questions)
Hal and Melanie: Our free COLLEGE DECISION RESOURCE PACKAGE
Hal and Melanie: Paying for College with No Debt and No Fortune
Hal and Melanie: The Unexpected Benefits of Graduation
Hal and Melanie: Entrepreneurship and College
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April 11, 2020 What Are You Reading Right Now? – MBFLP 245

These are challenging times, and whether you need entertainment to pass the idle hours, or something diverting at the end of a stressful day, a good book is great to find. We're book people, for sure, and we know the value of trusted authors and especially, those who have lots of titles to discover! So this episode, we're talking about our favorite books and authors - some we share, and some we don't!

We discovered we both enjoy mysteries

As a genre, good detective stories offer a vision of right and wrong, and the possibility that truth can be found and justice prevail. We really like istories with likeable, well-developed characters, intriguing plots, and particularly, heroes who are fundamentally decent people. Stories with ambiguous or situational morals, protagonists we wouldn't introduce to our family, or anything supernatural or occult, we don't enjoy at all - those, we avoid.

Some of the classics we enjoy are the books by Dorothy L. Sayers and Ngaio Marsh, two authors of the "Golden Age" of British detective stories. From the same era, on our side of the Atlantic, are Erle Stanley Gardner (the creator of Perry Mason) and Rex Stout (whose eccentric genius Nero Wolfe was only a lightweight version of the somewhat eccentric author) - both of them, quite prolific! (more below ...)

More modern authors, and featuring female protagonists, are Dorothy Gilman (whose Mrs. Emily Pollifax is more of a spy than a traditional detective) and Alexander McCall Smith, a Scottish mediccal professor who remembers his childhood in Botswana with a series about a woman who opens the first "Ladies' Detective Agency" in her country.

Deserving special mention are the father and daughter duo, Tony and Anne Hillerman. Tony's novels about the Navajo Tribal Police are packaged as supernatural thrillers, when they're actually police procedurals placed in the complex culture of "the Rez" - the spooky covers simply recall elements of the traditional religion of "the Dine' as the Navajo call themselves. His daughter Anne picked up Tony's characters after his death, and she's carried on the stories with the same skill her father displayed. We've thoroughly enjoyed the Hillermans' books, and their description of the culture and landscape were confirmed by our travels in Arizona and New Mexico - doubling our enjoyment!

We have other books which Hal prefers more than Melanie, and some the other way around - to find out more about our favorites, check the longer article on our own blog here!
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April 03, 2020 When They’re Being Bullied – MBFLP 244
Studies and surveys tell us up to 49% of school kids (grades 4-12) have been bulled in the past month - but homeschoolers aren't immune to threats and intimidation. This episode, we talk with Candice Dugger of BulliedBrokenRedeemed, about what to look for if your child's being bullied,what you can do to help the situation, and more importantly, how to help your child heal.

Visit their website, BulliedBrokenRedeemed.com

We deal with this issue in our book Raising Real Men too - you can get your copy at (where else?) RaisingRealMen.com

37 min
March 26, 2020 Living through Lockdown – Work and School at Home – MBFLP 243
During this time of widespread shutdowns, many families are finding themselves trying to work from home, while homeschooling, and more. How do you balance the demands of work and school, while embracing the opportunities and new flexibility you may experience? Hal and Melanie have homeschooled and worked from home for 15 years and this episode they share some of that experience.
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February 21, 2020 When It’s Time They Were Moving Out – MBFLP 242

"What ever happened to growing up and moving out?" someone asked. The fact is, a growing number of young adults are living at home with their parents. Is this a problem? Well, sometimes yes, but sometimes not at all. This episode, we're talking about how to work through the young adults leaving Mom and Dad's home for a place of their own.
Back Home Again
The U.S. Census Bureau reports that in 1969, less than 10% of young men (ages 25-34) lived at home with their parents - and more than 80% were married and living with their wife. In 2019, though, nearly 20% are back home (or still at home) with Mom and Dad, and only 36% are married.1

There are many reasons that may be so, but popular wisdom aside, it's not necessarily a sign of failure or character weakness when a young adult is living in "the natal household," as one researcher puts it.

3:15 - Census figures on young adults and their living arrangements

5:45 - Reasons good kids may still be living at home

7:30 - How can we prepare our kids to be independent adults

15:25 - A word from our sponsor

16:25 - The importance of the parent-child relationship during this transition

18:11 - How to handle a young adult who puts the family at risk

22:00 - When your adult child wants to move out and you the parent are holding him or her back

25:55 - How to help a young adult who's "stuck"
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References

* Source: U.S. Census Bureau, Current Population Survey, Annual Social and Economic Supplement, 1967 to present; table AD3, "Living Arrangements of Adults 25 to 34 Years Old, 1967 to Present"

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February 04, 2020 Fighting Cabin Fever – MBFLP 241

"February is the cruelest month" is how T.S. Eliot began The Waste Land - until Ezra Pound suggested he change it to "April" for poetic reasons. Be that as it may, February is a time of dullness for many of us. It may affect us ourselves, it may affect our children. So what can we do about mid-winter cabin fever?

Admit it - the seasons do have an impact. You might have Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) - here's an article from the Mayo Clinic website. You may not have a condition that needs medical attention, but the fact that some people do have a problem with change in seasons should tell you it's not just your imagination.

It's not a sign of weakness or a character flaw to realize some things can make a difference. We have family from Scandinavia who tell us people there (where the winter days are really short) take active, preemptive steps to increase their cheerfulness - more light, more houseplants, and so on.

Listen in for more practical ideas to cheer up your dark days of February!

PASSAGES OF INTEREST
Seasons are a fact - and a blessing of God

“While the earth remains, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, winter and summer, and day and night shall not cease.” (God, in Genesis 8:22)

You [God] have made summer and winter. (Psalm 74:17)

God thunders marvelously with His voice;
He does great things which we cannot comprehend.
For He says to the snow, ‘Fall on the earth’;
Likewise to the gentle rain and the heavy rain of His strength. (Job 37:5-6)

He gives snow like wool;
He scatters the frost like ashes;
He casts out His hail like morsels;
Who can stand before His cold?
He sends out His word and melts them;
He causes His wind to blow, and the waters flow. (Psalm 147:16-18)
STORIES YOU MIGHT APPRECIATE
Don't Laugh - here's how to understand Southerners and snow

Chocolate snow cream recipe
UPCOMING EVENTS

Would you like to have Hal and Melanie speak at your church, group meeting, or some other gathering? We travel a great deal and it may be easier than you think! We're going to be in the states in yellow in 2020, so CLICK HERE to start the conversation!

* February 27-29, 2020 – Nashville, TN - Teach Them Diligently – Nashville
* March 13-14 – Williamsburg, VA - HEAV LeaderLife Conference
* March 26-28, 2020 – Rogers, AR - Teach Them Diligently – Northwest Arkansas
* April 3-4, 2020 – Kansas City, MO - Midwest Parent Educators (MPE) Conference
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January 23, 2020 Raising Kids to Love Their Siblings – MBFLP 240

Is sibling rivalry just something to expect? Is it a foregone conclusion that our kids are going to be simmering with jealousy, rivalry, and unkindness toward one another? Or is there a way to promote friendship and affection between brothers and sisters? We have eight kids, and while they've had their moments of conflict, we've been blessed to see them grow in genuine love as they've matured. How can we foster this sort of relationship in the home?
TRAPS TO AVOID
We know families where the sibling relationships are so broken, some aren't talking decades after the original hurt feelings. Our college students have remarked how many of their classmates are uninterested in going home for holidays or breaks. Where does the breakdown begin? More importantly, what can we avoid or correct, to preserve and promote better relationships?

* Bullying or provoking behavior - they're two forms of the same problem
* Name calling - and when nicknames are and aren't cool
* A culture of sarcasm and irony
* Battle of the sexes - don't even start
* Favoritism - it didn't end well for Joseph nor Isaac

POSITIVE TRAITS TO PROMOTE
On the other hand, there are many things we can do to cultivate a better sort of family culture.

* Teach them how to be friends
* Praise and reward good behavior
* Make family harmony a matter of honor
* Provide opportunities to be friends
* Build memories together
* Share emotions - rejoice with them that rejoice
* Cultivate respect - starting with husband and wife of each other, then parent/child and siblings

Remember, and teach your kids, that when the Bible speaks about love, it involves knowing the other person, and choosing to behave in a considerate and kindly manner to them. It's an active choice, not just a feeling! And that means that we can hold that as a standard of behavior ... and know it's something we can actually do. Trust that when our actions are right, the feelings tend to follow!
UPCOMING EVENTS
February 27-29 - "Teach Them Diligently" Homeschool Convention - Nashville, TN

March 13-14 - LeaderLife Conference (Home Education Association of Virginia) - Williamsburg, VA
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Biblical truth for real family life — practical help for Christian parents raising, teaching, and discipling their kids at home. Authors and longtime homeschool parents Hal and Melanie Young tackle…