Episode 145: Mark is a Human Connection Specialist - an emotional translator, writer, speaker and coach.

Through his work Mark helps people understand their emotional matrix and how to master themselves and their words. His clients range from individuals and couples, to businesses and leaders. He takes what you think you want, finds out what you really want, and gives you the tools to achieve your goals.

Mark had always wondered what separated people with amazing relationships from those who were just average. Why did some relationships maintain bliss for a lifetime, and others… not so much? Why did some people have the ability to leads thousands, and others couldn’t even lead themselves?

From what he has seen and experienced, how we connect to others will be the single greatest predictor of success in every facet of our lives. So he set out to discover the secrets of those who thrive in love and life so he could become one. His research became his life, and he lives everything he learns and writes about.

Show notes:

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Mark was engaged but didn't really feel like she was the right one to marry; this led him to research and understand relationships better

How he realized he was not trusting his own feelings but trusting what others were saying instead

Why believing that you only have one soul mate isn't true

We don't celebrate quality, we celebrate length

Discussion on the attachment theory

Who are the pursuers and the runners in a relationship

Why we become the opposite (pursuers become runners, runners become pursuers) when we're hurt

The underlying beliefs of the runner and the chaser

How conflict makes people feel overwhelmed and why space is needed to process it

The best thing to do is learn your own emotional matrix

Why somebody who's distant is probably a runner

Why relationships require constant ebbing and flowing and checking on each other's growth

How to remain open when your other half is not communicating

How learned responses protect us from being hurt but inevitably cause us to be hurt

How finding out the inherited relationships you have with silence can bring awareness to how it shows up to your life

True change happens when we take responsibility

Why understanding our emotions can deepen our relationship

How being a perfect match to each other's wounds is a beautiful invitation for each other to heal

How issues are the perfect invitation to grow

Must-read books:

Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller

Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix

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