Welcome back to another powerful episode of The Coachable Podcast! In this episode, host Tori Gordon sits down with James Silvas, a master coach specializing in sports psychology, personal mastery, men's work, and deep heart leadership. This marks his second appearance on the podcast, and as always, he brings a wealth of insight and wisdom.

James shares his journey from chasing external success to discovering the deeper path of mastery, devotion, and clarity. Through powerful storytelling and reflection, James delves into the practices that have shaped him into the leader he is today, emphasizing the importance of being committed to the process rather than focusing solely on outcomes.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

The Shift from Ego to Truth: James explains how moving from a desire to be the world's best to simply being his best has allowed him to focus on meaningful, authentic goals that resonate deeply.

Clarity and Leadership: The best leaders are not the loudest, but the clearest. James dives into how clarity, patience, and surrender to the process lead to mastery in all aspects of life—be it business, relationships, or personal growth.

Mastery vs. Status: James and Tori discuss the difference between playing the status game versus the mastery game—how one is rooted in external validation and the other in continuous, lifelong growth and refinement.

Surrendering to the Divine: At the heart of mastery is a deep connection to something greater than ourselves. James talks about how devotion to the craft, whether it’s business, relationships, or personal development, creates a space for divine energy to move through.

The Power of Yes and No: Understanding when to say yes to exploration and when to say no to what no longer serves you is a key practice in mastering your life and staying true to your values.

If you've ever felt torn between pursuing external recognition or finding a deeper sense of purpose, this conversation will offer clarity and insight into how you can step into a life of true mastery. Whether you're leading a team, growing a business, or navigating personal transformation, the principles James shares are invaluable for anyone on a journey of self-discovery.

As James shares, “Mastery is a continual chipping away of what doesn’t serve. It’s about surrendering to something bigger than yourself and letting the practice move through you.”

🎧 Tune in to hear how you can begin your own journey of mastery and devotion!

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

The role of clarity in becoming a masterful leader

How mastery is about continual growth and refinement, not perfection

The difference between playing the status game and the mastery game

The spiritual element of mastery and surrendering to something greater

How to make empowered choices in your life and leadership

Resources Mentioned:

James’ Website: www.jamessilvas.com

Instagram: @james.silvas

Connect with Tori: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetorigordon 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/thetorigordon

Personal Website: www.torigordon.com 

 

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If you’re tired of being stuck in indecision and want to start making aligned, confident choices, reach out to me! DM me the word “decide” on Instagram and let’s talk about how we can work together in my high-performance leadership coaching program. 

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