Are mood swings running the show lately—and leaving you feeling like a stranger in your own life? If you've ever cried over a commercial, snapped at your partner for simply breathing, or found yourself thinking “Who even am I right now?”, you’re in good company. In this episode, we’re diving into the emotional whirlwind that so often comes with midlife—and unpacking what’s hormonal, what’s situational, and what’s actually a powerful wake-up call.

Yes, estrogen and progesterone are shifting—but so are your boundaries, your priorities, and your willingness to carry everyone else’s emotional weight. This conversation will help you reframe the chaos and find clarity in the middle of it all.

In this episode:

• Why mood swings during perimenopause aren't “just hormonal”—and why that matters
• How hormonal changes amplify (but don’t invent) deeper emotional truths
• The surprising wisdom behind your midlife rage, tears, or numbness
• The essential questions to ask when everything feels “too much”
• What estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, and cortisol are doing behind the scenes
• Why gut health and adrenal balance are key to emotional stability
• How to turn midlife mood swings into a map for real, sustainable change

Resources Mentioned:

Meadow Hill Wellness Concierge Program (for Maryland residents): https://www.meadowhillwellness.com/renewher 

FREE RESOURCE: Download your guide to thriving in midlife: risingwomanproject.com

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have an idea for a future episode? I’d love to hear it! Send me your thoughts at [email protected]

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Is your heart suddenly racing out of nowhere—and you're not even stressed? You’re not alone. Many midlife women are blindsided by unexpected heart symptoms like palpitations, racing pulses, and sudden spikes in blood pressure. It’s terrifying, confusing, and all too often dismissed as “just anxiety.”

In this heartfelt episode, I share my own journey with perimenopausal tachycardia—when my resting heart rate soared to 170 BPM—and the deeper discoveries that followed. If you’ve ever wondered whether your heart symptoms are hormonal, this episode is for you.

In this episode:

• My personal story with unexplained heart racing during perimenopause
• Why midlife heart symptoms are often misunderstood or dismissed
• The powerful role estrogen and progesterone play in cardiovascular health
• How hormone shifts affect blood pressure, heart rate variability, and anxiety
• Wearable tech (like WHOOP and Oura) as tools to track heart and hormone changes
• Functional medicine insights into cortisol, histamine, and HPA axis dysfunction
• When to seek emergency care—and when to explore deeper hormone testing

Resources Mentioned:

WHOOP wearable tracker: https://www.whoop.com

Oura Ring: https://ouraring.com

Learn more about Meadow Wellness and our Renew Her program: https://www.meadowhillwellness.com/ 

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae 

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Big News: Our Midlife Concierge Program Is Launching!

Hi ladies, it’s Dr. Sarah here with something incredibly exciting I’ve been waiting to share. Monique, our amazing nurse practitioner, and I are launching a brand-new Concierge Membership Program exclusively for women in midlife right here in Maryland!

This high-touch, deeply personalized program is designed to support you through every phase of perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. We’re combining the best of functional medicine, Chinese medicine, lifestyle coaching, and bioidentical hormone therapy—plus weekly coaching calls and advanced lab testing—to give you the care and attention you truly deserve.

To celebrate the launch of our concierge membership program, I’m doing a special fan-favorite replay! We're bringing back Monique’s wildly popular episode, Hormones 101. Whether you missed it the first time or want a refresher, it’s the perfect companion to this exciting announcement.

👉 Interested in becoming a founding member? Email us at [email protected] to learn more or reserve your spot. (Maryland residents only!)

We can't wait to support your midlife journey in a whole new way —and I hope you enjoy this encore episode!

Did you know you can start experiencing perimenopausal symptoms as early as your mid-thirties?
 
 Many women feel confused and alone during perimenopause because the world totally fails to prepare them for it. If you relate to that, you’re in good hands because my guest, Monique Willingham, and I are passionate about helping women understand what’s happening in their bodies during this time.
 
 This episode of Midlife Rise + Thrive will help you understand your hormones and empower you to reclaim your health. Welcome to the Hormones 101 class you never got.
 
 Monique is a Nurse Practitioner who has been practicing in oncology for over 15 years and uses a holistic approach to help patients reduce inflammation and improve energy and mental clarity.
 
 
 In this episode:

• The basic roles of your hormones 
• Why your symptoms might feel inconsistent 
• How to make your hormones happy

 Resources Mentioned:

Visit Monique’s Website: www.remedygreenwellness.com 

Learn About the Midlife Concierge Program: [email protected] 

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

 Is your mind constantly racing, your body feeling depleted—and you’re wondering if you’ll ever feel grounded again? If so, this episode is your gentle nudge to slow down and reconnect. Midlife is often a whirlwind of change, and sometimes, what we need most is to simply pause.

Today, I’m joined by my friend and fellow yoga teacher, Alicia Sweeney, for a heartfelt conversation about the transformative power of yoga in midlife—especially the deeply nourishing practice of Yin Yoga. Whether you're a seasoned yogi or a curious beginner, you’ll walk away with a new appreciation for how yoga can become your anchor through change.

In this episode:

• Why midlife is the perfect time to return to—or begin—a yoga practice
• The emotional and spiritual benefits of slowing down through Yin Yoga
• How yoga teacher training can transform your life (even if you never teach!)
• The power of consistency over intensity in movement and life
• How Yin Yoga supports your nervous system and emotional release
• Letting go of friendships that no longer align—and finding connection through community
• Why authenticity is the highest vibration you can live in

Resources Mentioned:

• Book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
• Book: Atomic Habits by James Clear
• Blue Lotus Yoga Studio (Annapolis): https://www.bluelotusannapolis.com/ 
• 2026 200-Hour Yoga Teacher Training Info: https://www.bluelotusannapolis.com/200-hour-ytt
• 50-hour Yin Yoga Teacher Training (Fall 2025, for RYTs): https://www.bluelotusannapolis.com/yin-yoga-training
• Yoga Festival – Alicia in Maine July 25-27 (with 10% discount code: ASWEENEY25): https://www.maineyogafest.com/festival
• Yoga Festival – Sara in Asheville July 24-27 (with 10% discount code: spoldmae2025): https://www.loveshineplay.com
• Alicia Sweeney’s Website: www.yogalicias.com
• Follow Alicia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yogalicias and IG: https://www.instagram.com/yogalicias 

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Are your relationships leaving you feeling like a turtle—or a honey badger?
If you’ve ever found yourself second-guessing your instincts in love, friendships, or even with your kids, this episode is for you. We’re exploring how attachment styles don’t just show up in your relationships with others—but in your relationship with yourself. And learning to feel secure with you can change everything.

In this heartfelt and insightful conversation, I’m joined by Amanda Fuenzalida, an attachment therapist and coach I met during our Panama retreat. She brings a playful but powerful perspective to understanding emotional patterns through “animal-style” attachment metaphors that make the science click. You’ll come away with a deeper sense of why you might respond the way you do—and how to start building true inner safety.

In this episode:

• Why your attachment style isn’t fixed—and how it changes in midlife
• What it means to have an attachment style with yourself
• The animal metaphors that help you spot your emotional patterns (koala, turtle, honey badger, dragon!)
• How childhood messaging shaped your ability to trust your gut
• Why self-trust is key in navigating dating, divorce, and relationships in midlife
• How to spot old wounds when they’re triggered in current relationships
• First steps to healing: learning to hear and honor your own voice

Resources Mentioned:

• Website: https://www.attachmentlabs.com/ 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentlabs

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

 Is Online Menopause Care Really Helping You? The Hidden Risks You Need to Know Are you feeling dismissed, rushed, or just plain confused by the options for menopause care? You’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. In this episode, I’m diving into a growing trend that’s both promising and problematic: online telehealth services offering hormone therapy and quick-fix prescriptions.

If you've ever felt tempted to click "buy" on a hormone treatment without a proper medical evaluation, this conversation is for you. I’m breaking down why this new wave of care might be missing the mark—and what true, holistic midlife care should actually look like.

In this episode:

• Why fast online hormone prescriptions may be doing more harm than good
• The problem with “one-size-fits-all” menopause solutions
• Real risks of taking medications without lab work or proper medical guidance
• The missing piece in online care: lifestyle medicine as your superpower
• What comprehensive midlife healthcare really looks like
• Why menopause deserves more than a Band-Aid—and so do you
• The power of seeing this life phase as a creative, vibrant transition

Resources Mentioned:

 FREE RESOURCE: Download “Exhausted to Empowered” — your guide to lifestyle shifts that support your health in midlife

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Have you ever looked around your life in midlife and thought… “Wait, I did what?!”

Whether it’s bold sexual escapades with a 23-year-old, becoming a Mahjong teacher, or finally setting boundaries with that one bossy sibling, this episode is all about the unexpected (and often hilarious or profound) ways women are surprising themselves in midlife.

In this soul-stirring, laugh-out-loud solo episode, I’m sharing real stories from women in our community who answered one question: What have you done in midlife that surprised you? Their answers are raw, raunchy, tender, and deeply inspiring—and they just might shift your perspective on what this chapter of life can truly hold.

In this episode:

• From beach abs to badass boundaries: real answers from real women
• Why giving up alcohol in midlife can be radically liberating
• The quiet strength found in grief—and how one woman honored hers
• How international solo travel becomes a rite of passage for many midlife women
• Unexpected career pivots, from surfing in Panama to launching a business after divorce
• The emotional sandwich of caring for aging parents and reconnecting with siblings
• What it really means to live unapologetically in this bold season of life

Resources Mentioned:

FREE RESOURCE: Download “From Exhausted to Empowered” – your guide to feeling better in your body and spirit in midlife: RisingWomanProject.com

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Feeling a little off—even when everything seems joyful and full?
You’re not alone. In this softer, more personal episode, I’m opening up from my living room (yes, not the usual recording space!) about what it means to feel ungrounded even in the midst of joy. This season of life has been full—travel, speaking, retreats, my daughter home from college—and I’m sharing how a sweet little puppy named Winnie has become the unexpected anchor I didn’t know I needed.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re rushing through life, even the good parts, this one’s for you.

In this episode:

• Why joy and burnout can sometimes co-exist
• The subtle signs you're out of sync with your own rhythm
• How my daughter’s return home sparked a needed pause
• The very intentional (and slightly wild) decision to adopt a puppy
• How slowing down is a radical act of self-alignment
• The unexpected ways rest restores us in midlife
• Why you don’t have to “earn” your joy

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Are you holding onto old patterns that no longer serve you—and wondering if it’s too late to change? In this episode, we explore the powerful idea that transformation is always possible, no matter your age or history. In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author and inspirational teacher Caren Paskel to talk about what it really means to believe in yourself in midlife—and how that belief can radically shift your health, your energy, and your entire life direction. Caren’s story is a deeply moving example of growth through adversity. From identifying as a shy, introverted child to becoming a dynamic speaker and retreat leader, she shares how self-belief became her foundation—especially after the profound loss of her soulmate and husband.

Caren Paskel is a best-selling author, speaker, and founder of Caren Paskel Self-Evolution, Youthful Longevity Yoga Training and Retreat™, and the Self-Evolution Education (S.E.E.) Foundation. A master in Vedanta philosophy and a lifelong yoga practitioner—starting her growth journey at just 16—Caren has dedicated her career to guiding individuals toward holistic transformation, empowerment, and self-mastery. With decades of experience in yoga and spiritual education, she provides a practical roadmap for integrating ancient wisdom into modern life.

A firm believer in the power of mentorship and collective energy, Caren has inspired thousands through her Self-Evolution courses, retreats, and books, including The Power of Self-Belief. Her teachings focus on the eternal values of life, the path of yoga to self-realization, and the importance of breaking free from small thinking to step into one’s highest potential.

In this episode:

• What it really means to believe in your higher self—not just your personality
• The connection between self-belief and healthy aging
• Why changing your “paradigm” is essential for long-term well-being
• How proximity to inspiring people can spark your own inner transformation
• The difference between self-esteem and true self-belief
• How Caren’s caregiving journey became a catalyst for spiritual growth
• Lessons from yoga philosophy that helped her move through grief and rebuild

Resources Mentioned:

• Learn more about Caren’s retreats and education foundation: https://carenpaskel.com
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carenpaskelselfevolution/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caren-paskel/
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@carenpaskelyoga6711
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carenpaskel/

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!

Are you feeling overwhelmed by sudden bursts of rage—and wondering if it’s just you? You’re not alone. Many midlife women experience emotional intensity that seems to come out of nowhere. That fiery anger, the kind that feels like it’s bubbling just beneath the surface, isn’t just in your head—and it might be telling you something important.

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and business coach, Bailey Feldman, as we unpack the rising rage so many women experience in their 30s and 40s. We get honest about what it feels like, where it comes from (hint: it’s not just hormones), and what you can actually do to feel more balanced and in control. Whether you're in full-blown perimenopause or just starting to notice shifts, this conversation is your invitation to get curious—not critical—about what your body and emotions are trying to say.

In this episode:

• Why rage is more common than you think in your 30s and 40s
• What Chinese medicine says about emotional buildup (hello, liver Qi stagnation)
• How hormonal shifts start before perimenopause officially begins
• Lifestyle habits and mindset shifts that can smooth emotional edges
• The role of acupuncture, herbal support, and gentle liver detox
• Why we need community—and how multi-generational spaces can support healing
• The importance of pushing back on the “just survive it” mindset

 Resources Mentioned:

• Learn more about acupuncture and holistic hormone support: risingwomanproject.com
• Bailey’s community space for women: Fount + Flourish
• Fount + Flourish Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thefount_co 
• Bailey’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/baileyfeldman_ 

Connect with me, Dr. Sara Poldmae:

Website: https://risingwomanproject.com

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/drsarapoldmae

Have a question I can answer? Send me a message! I love to hear from my listeners!