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Jeff Cook sits down with coach, author, and deconstruction theologian Stacey Wynn to clear up common misconceptions about Enneagram Eights—and name what often gets missed about their inner life.

Stacey talks about being labeled “intimidating,” why many Eights aren’t loud bullies, and how they often “fill the vacuum” when leadership lacks integrity. They explore the Eight’s small circle of trust, how Eights can care deeply (and sometimes “care aggressively”), and how anger functions less as outbursts and more as a steady internal signal—especially around dismissal, betrayal, and justice. The conversation also touches fear, control, and “decisioning,” plus the Eight-Five dynamic in relationships. They close with a brief turn toward theology and deconstruction, focusing on power, hierarchy, and healthier communities, and Stacey shares where listeners can find her work.