Mostly Balanced

By Carleigh

Mostly Balanced is a dating podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Join host Carleigh every Monday as she answers listener questions to help you build long-lasti... more

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How many episodes does Mostly Balanced have?

The podcast currently has 220 episodes available.

Mostly Balanced episodes:

September 30, 2024220. The Best Place To Meet New People This Fall (Not Sports Bars)
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid fire listener questions.
what we talk about:
Signs someone is into you on early dates (+ how to reciprocate)

Where to meet people outside of dating apps

How to approach someone you see everyday in the same place

Is it a red flag if you're not in their close friends circle on Instagram?

Is it a red flag if they go out drinking a lot with work and say it's "part of the job?"

When is the earliest you should move in together?
& more!
Links I mentioned:
⁠My review of my air purifier⁠

Christine's ⁠free guided meditation⁠⁠ to uncover and overcome dating blocks
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As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.
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And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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47min
September 23, 2024219. Are We Using Triggers As An Excuse To Not Do The Work? with Christine Lang
Welcome back! Today we're joined by a highly anticipated guest: Christine Lang, soul channel, intuitive, and energy healer.
We're chatting all about common fears and blocks that are stopping us from finding our ideal partner, and Christine even made an exclusive free guided meditation for all listeners to uncover—and overcome—their own fears and blocks.
*ACCESS THE FREE MEDITATION HERE*
what we talk about:
Why you keep attracting people who bring out your triggers?

How to stop dating with the mindset of wanting to be "picked"

How to let go of the scarcity mindset in dating

How to communicate with partners who don’t express their feelings

Is it a real connection or just surface level?

Triggers and blocks in dating vs. in long term relationships
& (a lot) more!
*⁠ACCESS THE FREE MEDITATION HERE⁠*
Find Christine on Instagram @christinelang_intuitive.
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As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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48min
September 17, 2024218. Do You Need To Be Fully Over Your Ex To Date Again?
Welcome back! Today we're answering a few longer listener questions.
what we talk about:
What to do when your needs are not being met in a relationship

What does it really mean when someone wants to “take things slow?”

What to do when they finally change but it feels too late?

Do ultimatums work in relationships?

Exactly what to say when you’re stuck in a situationship
& more!
Links I mentioned:
Red light face mask

Healthier sesame chicken

Seven Sundays cereal
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As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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39min
September 09, 2024217. Help! He Forgot My Birthday 2 Years In A Row
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.
what we talk about:
Ways to improve communication in a relationship

What to do when the person you're dating forgets your birthday

Am I the red flag for being underwhelmed by their birthday celebration?

What to do when you're only attracted to people who aren't emotionally available

Is it a red flag if they tell you they paused their dating apps?
& more!
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
...more
43min
August 26, 2024216. The One Question I Always Ask On Early Dates
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.
what we talk about:
7 steps to get over a breakup

Is it a red flag if they call you their ex's name?

How to handle different sex drives in a relationship + what to do when your partner never initiates

Early signs someone is emotionally available

Who should initiate early dates?

What to do when you hit it off with someone while traveling but it fizzles when you get home?
& more!
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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36min
August 12, 2024215. Is It Possible To Slow Down A Love Bomber?
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.
what we talk about:
My rant on how dating is actually a lot like finding a job

How to let go of your partner's past

Is it normal to want to break up with them because they are messy?

Why you're having trouble getting beyond the first date

What to do when there isn't physical attraction on early dates

Getting back together with an ex who has changed

How often to respond to someone's messages on an app

When to stop dating other people
& more!
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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45min
August 05, 2024214. 11 Common Behaviors That Are Damaging Your Relationship
Welcome back! Today we're talking about behaviors that damage your relationship, create distance, and ultimately cause breakups.
what we talk about:
the difference between the silent treatment and taking time to think/cool down

how to stop assuming your partner's feelings/thoughts/needs & what to do when they assume yours

what happens when arguments go unresolved

my thoughts on "never go to bed angry"

why you need to talk to your partner more about sex (& how to do it)

what to do when actions don't match words (or vice versa)

when comparison to past relationships is helpful (& when it's not)
& more!
👀 the post I reference all episode
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As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!

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43min
July 29, 2024213. Signs They're Falling In Love With You
Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a few listener questions and then we dive into some subtle and telltale signs someone is in love with you.
what we talk about:
Timelines for saying I love you

Should you slide into someone's DMs if they didn't match you back on a dating app?

My new favorite way to write a Bumble bio

Questions to ask to see if someone is right for you

Signs someone is falling in love with you
& more!
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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38min
July 22, 2024212. Why You Need To Have Uncomfortable Conversations & How To Do It
Welcome back! Today's episode dives into a few recent viral topics and wraps up with listener questions.
what we talk about:
Tips for introducing a partner to your family or friends (+ my own experience)

Why it's important to have deep conversations in a relationship

Deep conversation starters for dates

How to bring up uncomfortable conversation topics in a relationship

The differences between dating 30+ vs. dating in your 20s

The best ways to start a conversation on a dating app
& more!
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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the posts I referenced:
5 uncomfortable conversations to have before getting engaged

9 deep conversation starters for better dates
As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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35min
July 16, 2024211. The Lesson We Can All Learn From Work Crushes
Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions.
what we talk about:
How to talk to your partner about something they do that's bothering you

What to do when you feel "blank" or like you aren't good enough

Why we need to stop using our dating lives as a measurement tool for how great we are.

How to get over a crush on a married coworker
& more!
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
📖 Date with intention with my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠digital dating planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ebook (use code IG10 for $10 off)
As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlybalancedpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.
To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email [email protected].
And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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32min

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