Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting, I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing interviews, and beating the competition for the promotion you deserve.

Today you’ll learn how to:

• Get a YES (even when you’re not the obvious choice) through manipulation

• Turn rejection into opportunity

• Outshine everyone in an interview and get hired on the spot

• Position yourself for the next big promotion

• And walk away with strategies that will change how you move in business and in life, forever.

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Why Women Are Choosing Younger Men

This week on Almost Adulting, I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap double standards. Caroline Stanbury (yes, that Caroline from Ladies of London and Real Housewives of Dubai) and her hot husband Sergio (ex-pro footballer, full-time golden retriever energy) are here to prove that age is just a number—and chemistry is undefeated.

We’re talking:

• Vagina Watch 2016—where the love story began
• Sleeping together early (and why Sergio needed a second chance)
• The car he tried to hide and Caroline’s brutal reaction
• The perks of dating younger: stamina, TikTok fluency, and unapologetic oral sex
• Botox, poo talk, and why confidence > collagen
• Why their relationship makes people uncomfortable
• Dating across a language barrier and how Sergio really felt
• Haters, labels, and how to flip judgment into power

Plus: is dating a younger man the secret to crafting the emotionally available partner your therapist keeps promising?

If you’ve ever been judged for who you love, questioned if you’re too old to start over, or just want the tea on naked confidence and facelifts—this one’s for you! Grab your AirPods. And maybe a younger man, and hit play.

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Do you ever feel weirdly lonely in your relationships? Like you’re the one always doing the work—overthinking, overgiving, overfunctioning—and you still feel...empty? You’re not crazy. You might just have grown up with an emotionally immature parent.

In this special Benson Book Club episode, I break down the first chapter of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and walk you through the hidden patterns that are silently shaping your love life, self-worth, and ability to trust your instincts. From guilt for feeling unhappy, to people-pleasing, to dating men who “just don’t get it”—this episode unpacks all of it.

This one’s for the girls who grew up being the emotional support system for everyone else, and are only now realizing that’s not normal. Let’s heal the inner child, stop normalizing dysfunction, and stop mistaking emotional starvation for love.

Tag your best friend, take the quiz, cry a little, and reclaim your standards.

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If you're in your twenties then listen to this.

Your 20s are all about embracing mistakes, growth, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. In today's short episode, I’m sharing 20 things your 20s are too short for—like staying in toxic relationships, letting others define your worth, and holding back from living your best life. Plus, stick around for a powerful manifesting mantra at the end to help you shape the future you desire. <3

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Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This July, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Leo man obsessed with YOU.

Get ready to discover:

🔥 What he craves in a partner—and how to become his ultimate desire.

🔥 Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep his spotlight on you.

🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win back his fiery passion.

🔥 How to handle his bold personality and keep the romance alive.

🔥 The best strategies to reignite the spark if things cool off.

Leo men are the kings of romance, radiating confidence and charm like no other—this episode will show you how to claim his heart and keep it all yours. 🦁

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Ring ring… hellllllo? It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue!

Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what that means: a brand new episode of Ask Violetta. But today, we’re doing things a little differently... We’re answering just one question. But not just any question—the one that haunts your group chat at 2am:

“What if they’re your soulmate… but the timing’s off?”

You swear they’re the one. Your twin flame. Your human dopamine hit. Every text gives you fanny flutters. But fate? She’s a petty little b*tch. Wrong place. Wrong time. Right person. It’s a tale as old as time… so what the hell do you do??? Listen to this episode obviously!

So if that’s you, hit play. If it's your bestie, hit send.

Because someone in your group chat needs to hear this before it's too late.

By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly what to do. And if that means letting go? I’ve got you boo, with 9 steps to detach like the hot unbothered queen you were always meant to be.

P.S. Don’t forget... the right people are timeless. <3

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Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves?

This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, smart enough, hot enough, just... not enough. You’ll find out why it exists, how it got there, and how to finally shut it the hell up.

We’re talking:

· The real science behind your inner critic (yes, it’s a thing - it’s called the Default Mode Network)

· Why comparing yourself to everyone on the internet is literally frying your brain (hi, Social Comparison Theory)

· How to mentally separate from that toxic inner voice (Cognitive Diffusion, b*tch)

· And how to give yourself the kind of love you’re always chasing from other people (Radical Self-Compassion...look it up, it’s life-changing)

By the end of this, you’re going to understand that being hard on yourself isn’t some personality trait - it’s a survival habit you can unlearn. And we’re doing it together, one savage thought at a time.

This episode is science, sass, and self-respect. Let’s go.

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Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time’ love language. But don’t panic... needing time isn’t the problem, ignoring it is.

Hi besties!! Today we’re breaking down everything you need to know about the second most common love language: Quality Time.

So before you call it quits, LISTEN UP.

If you’re feeling unloved, or they swear you’re “too needy,” this episode is your playbook. I’m breaking down how 'Quality Time' lovers give and receive love, so you can stop misreading the signs and start getting what you actually need.

Send this to your partner (yes, I’m giving you the green light) or listen yourself if you’ve been dating someone who blows up your phone five minutes after you leave.

Your clinginess? It’s not clingy.

It’s love. Let’s talk about it.

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What if I told you the reason you don’t have your summer body… is because of your situationship?

This week I’m joined by Sarah Perl, aka The Hot High Priestess, and we’re unpacking why your anxiety, trauma, and bad taste in men are literally showing up on your body.

We go deep on:

• Why your nervous system is hoarding fat like it’s hoarding toxic men
• What it really takes to make a man obsessed with you
• How to manifest your ex back - and when to not
• Law of Detachment: stop obsessing, start attracting
• Masculine vs. feminine energy—and why you keep chasing
• How to break the cycle of dating your daddy (again)
• How generational trauma lives in your hips
• Why you can’t find real love until you heal, and more!
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If you’ve ever cried over a man and gained five pounds after, this one’s for you :)

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Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This June, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Cancer man obsessed with YOU.

Get ready to learn:

🔥 What makes him the ultimate romantic—and how to use it to your advantage.

🔥 Foolproof ways to connect with his sensitive side and make him feel safe with you.

🔥 What he craves in a relationship (and what will push him away).

🔥 The signs he’s withdrawing emotionally—and how to bring him back closer than ever.

🔥 How to win him back if his shell has already closed off.

Whether you’re drawn to his nurturing energy, already dating him, or trying to reignite the love, this episode will give you the ultimate guide to getting him to fall in love. So hit play now and make this June all about mastering the heart of the zodiac’s most caring sign!

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