A husband finds out—after 12 years of marriage and two kids—that he was never his wife's first choice. After a night of drinks and a fight, she admitted she "settled" for him and still thinks about her college ex.

This is brutal. And it’s more common than you think.

In this video, I break down his story, talk about what’s really going on in situations like this, and explain why some women end up choosing comfort over passion... until it all boils over.

If you're a man trying to make sense of your relationship, sex life, or identity as a husband and father… you're not alone.

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