Find out how narcissistic abuser use scapegoating to escape inner pain and the way the scapegoat child is used to alleviate pain within the narcissistic family unit.

Find out how the empaths and narcissists are drawn to each other in relationships and why.

Find out how covert narcissistic abusers use their attitudes and covert intentions to abuse and destroy their victims.

Find out how narcissistic abusers are able to eclipse their victims sense of self and steal their identity for personal gain.

Find out how narcissistic abusers manipulate their victims and lower their sense of self worth and self image for personal gain and how to heal from a low self esteem after narcissistic abuse.

Find out how one attracts dysfunction and toxic relationships based on the law of attraction and how to heal and manifest a healthy reality.

It today’s podcast we discuss how the self gets splintered, shattered, or even annihilated and how to integrate ones past into the present moment.

In this episode I discuss the psychological makeup of the narcissistic abusers mind and how the inner critic and superego play a role in narcissistic abuse.

Cults have many similarities with narcissistically abusive relationships. Firstly, cults do not allow for individuality and use many narcissistically abusive mind control techniques to keep victims stuck and in servitude. Secondly, cults will use scapegoating and manipulate victims to see anyone who doesn’t agree with their ideologies as other and needing to be fought. Cults will look to gaslight victims into not trusting their own self and taking on the cults groupthink viewpoints as a way of making sure everyone complied to the abusive tyrant leader.

Narcissistic abusers look to mind control victims and control their victims’ perceptions of the relationship. Narcissistic abusers need their victims to chose the abuse and so therefore hide their true intention behind the fake love and subtle mental manipulation. They do this by love bombing and creating an environment of connection when in fact they have carefully crafted lies and a false self that the abuser will supply.