Becoming: HER with Nikki Spoelstra

New Level, New Devil: The Dating Game and *REALLY* Understanding What You Want. Ep. 159


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What is up my friends and welcome back to The Know! Today we have Marni Battista who is the founder of Dating with Dignity and the Institute for Living Courageously. Marni is one of those women who is walking the talk, she's just doin it all! We have so much to cover today but some of the heavy hitting topics you can expect from this episode is dating after divorce in today's complex social environment, were talking about why women date unavailable men, and how we can move away from suffering through unfulfilling relationships and into relationships that are fulfilling, love centered, want based, happy, and safe. With that, let's get started!  


I also have some exciting news to share…I know first hand the power of community and shared experience and I am so honored to announce that I have created an online women's community where we talk about all of life's topics. In my group Becoming HER, we are striving to become the best versions of ourselves and realize that SHE is ME and that we can become the her of our highest desires. I have a special promotion for my podcast audience and I want to welcome you all to becoming her where we will do great things together! 





In this episode…

  • Self worth 
  • Shame & embarrassment 
  • Dating with DIGNITY 
  • Dating from a place of insecurity  
  • True self love 
  • Your soul's journey 
  • Core values & Non-negotiables 
  • NOT being a pick me 




Quotes


“Dating with dignity is waking up the next day feeling great about yourself. It's about not taking rejection personally, it's about having an abundant life, it's about setting boundaries and acting on the behalf of your highest self and knowing your value.” - Marni Battista 


“In this new dating scene post divorce I have had to rediscover who I am as a single woman and what I want in a new relationship moving forward.” - Nikki Spo


“If you have dignity, self worth, and self respect and you have the actual tools to communicate appropriately, dating is actually kind of fun.” - Marni Battista 


“At this point in my life, men now are competing with my peace. I love myself so much and so if somebody else loves me, that's just icing on the cake” - Nikki Spo 


“You’re creating your soul's journey for a reason, wake up and listen. - Marni Battista 


“People tend to rule out before they rule in and my invitation is to rule in before you rule out. Let a guy rule himself out.” - Marni Battista 





Timestamps: 

0:00 - 3:55 | Intro 

3:55 - 5:35 | What is Dating with Dignity 

5:35 - 10:05 | What damages our dignity 

10:05 - 15:15 | Finding your self worth 

15:15 - 19:25 | Learning the lessons 

19:25 - 21:17 | Deep reflection  

21:17 - 27:05 | Core values & Non-negotiables 

27:05 - 30:40 | The checklist 

30:40 - 33:45 | Re-entering the dating world 

33:45 - 37:00 | NOT being a pick me 

37:00 - 42:50 | Living courageously 

42:50 - 45:00 | Outro







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Connect with Marni Battista 

Institute for Living Courageously / Dating with Dignity  

@marnibattista_ 





Connect with Nikki 

www.nikkispo.com  

@nikkisappspo@theknowwithnikkispo 



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