What do you do when it seems like they want you but not a relationship? Or when they judge your past even though it had nothing to do with them? In this episode, I'll talk about setting boundaries even when it scares you, how to confidently slide into DMs (with some wild personal examples), and how to avoid letting your insecurities destroy your self-worth. I'll also cover how to reframe comparing new people to your ex for elevating your standards and what to do when they make it seem like they want you but not a relationship.

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Chapters:

00:00 Intro: A Listener Sets a Boundary

06:16 Guys Judging You For Your Past: Valid or Invalid?

19:50 Handling Your Insecurities in Relationships

27:09 How to Slide in the DMs

37:22 Reclaiming Standards After Being Left by Someone You Loved

50:56 They Want You But Not a Relationship