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In this deeply intimate episode of Open Deeply, Kate Loree and Sunny Megatron sit down with Nikki Boyer, co-creator and executive producer of the award-winning Dying for Sex podcast, which inspired the acclaimed FX/Hulu series starring Michelle Williams and Jenny Slate.
At the heart of Dying for Sex is the extraordinary story of Nikki’s best friend, Molly Kochan, who, after receiving a terminal cancer diagnosis, embarked on a sexual journey that became something much bigger: a reclamation of her body, her agency, her desires, and ultimately, herself.
For Kate, a two-time cancer survivor and sex-positive psychotherapist, Molly’s story hit remarkably close to home. While Molly experienced what Kate calls a “sexual cancer journey,” Kate’s own recurrence of cancer in 2023 launched her into a psychedelic cancer journey. As Kate watched Dying for Sex, uncanny synchronicities between their lives began piling up—and eventually compelled her to write Nikki a deeply personal letter.
That letter began the connection that led to this conversation.
Together, Nikki, Kate, and Sunny explore what lies beneath the sexcapades: how confronting mortality can crack us open; how survivors can reclaim the body after sexual trauma; the complicated dance between control, surrender, kink, and vulnerability; and Molly’s growing realization that the epic love she was searching for might ultimately be found within herself.
But Dying for Sex contains another extraordinary love story—the friendship between Molly and Nikki. Nikki shares what it was like to accompany someone she loved through the final chapter of her life, what Molly taught her about love and death, and what it means to carry a friend’s story into the world after they are gone.
This is a conversation about sex, cancer, trauma, psychedelics, kink, friendship, grief, self-love, and the strange beauty that can emerge when mortality strips away the illusion that we have forever.
Molly showed us that it is never too late to reclaim your body, your truth, your agency—and your life.
Guest: Nikki Boyer, co-creator and executive producer of Dying for Sex.
Nikki's Bio:
Nikki Boyer is an Emmy-nominated, Golden Globe-winning executive producer and Peabody Award winner for the acclaimed FX/Hulu series Dying for Sex, based on the deeply personal Wondery podcast she co-created, starred in, and executive produced about her best friend, Molly Kochan. The original podcast won the Ambies Award for Podcast of the Year and was named one of Apple’s Favorite Podcasts of the Year.
A three-time Emmy Award-winning host, Nikki has recorded more than 600 podcast episodes and hosted acclaimed series including Call Me Curious and The Daily Smile. Her television work includes The Drew Barrymore Show, The Talk, The Wendy Williams Show, Gilmore Girls, and The L Word. Across her work, Nikki brings vulnerability, humor, and a deep belief in the healing power of storytelling.
How to find Nikki: https://nikkiboyer.com/
IG: http://instagram.com/nikkiiboyer
Youtube: @nikkiboyerTV
Hosts: Sex-positive psychotherapist and author Kate Loree and sexologist Sunny Megatron
How to find Sunny Megatron:
Website: http://sunnymegatron.com
Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron
Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron
Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk
How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ
Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.
In this special episode of Open Deeply, Sunny Megatron sits down with co-host Kate Loree to explore the therapeutic approach she has developed over more than two decades as a psychotherapist.
Kate shares how she integrates EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic psychotherapy, ketamine-assisted psychotherapy, and psychedelic integration to help people heal trauma, deepen intimacy, and create more authentic relationships with themselves and others.
Together, they discuss:
What makes Kate's approach different from traditional relationship and trauma therapy
Why she specializes in working with consensual non-monogamy, sexuality, and sex workers
How spirituality became an important part of her clinical work
What led her to ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and psychedelic integration
The launch of Open Deeply Coaching and how coaching differs from psychotherapy
Supporting couples creating a new chapter in intimacy and people navigating consensual non-monogamy
Kate's men's process group and her vision for future groups exploring psychedelic integration, spirituality, and alternative relationships
The biggest lessons she's learned after working with thousands of clients
Whether you're curious about trauma healing, relationships, sexuality, psychedelic integration, or human potential, this conversation offers an inside look at the philosophy that guides Kate's work and why she believes lasting change happens through curiosity, compassion, and embodied self-awareness.
Kate's Bio:
Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive psychotherapist, author, speaker, and podcast host specializing in trauma, relationships, sexuality, and non-traditional relationship structures. She works extensively with LGBTQIA+, kink, and consensually non-monogamous communities and is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships.
In addition to her work as a licensed marriage and family therapist, Kate holds an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is certified in EMDR, IFS-Informed Somatic Trauma Therapy, and Psychedelic Harm Reduction & Integration and offers Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy.
Kate has worked with clients since 2003 and is known for integrating attachment theory, somatic awareness, sexuality, nervous system regulation, and compassionate communication into her work. She co-hosts the Open Deeply podcast with Sunny Megatron, has appeared in BuzzFeed videos and Playboy Radio, and has been featured in media outlets including Vice and Ms. Magazine.
Through her writing, teaching, and clinical work, Kate helps people create more authentic relationships,
How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ
How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk
Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.
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